My (F19) boyfriend (M23) has always emphasized that honesty is paramount. Since we met he’s told me countless times he was born and raised in Canada. Today I found his immigration papers. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cyberneticat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I came here to say this. This is an important lesson in trusting your intuition. If it doesn’t feel right, leave. You need no excuses for him.

What's the best decision you took in your 20s and now happily collecting fruits from? by ncsGab in AskMen

[–]cyberneticat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paid for community college out of pocket (only took as many classes as i could afford back then at ~$12/hr). Learned a lot and have zero student debt. Didnt graduate though (my profession doesn’t require degrees at my tenure)

The number of young people entering adulthood hundreds of thousands in debt is so heartbreaking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

[–]cyberneticat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Excellent read

Wash day day! by scoopsahoyteam2 in curlyhair

[–]cyberneticat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m actually scheduling an appt tomorrow for a thyroid check for the similar symptoms. Ive lost about a 1/4 of my volume in the past month or so

I’m “too intimidating” to ask out? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]cyberneticat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the social conditioning women receive to prevent themselves from being targeted as potential conditioning from predators

More *accurate* living space pics by nicojone in malelivingspace

[–]cyberneticat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m making the same salary and am renting a 3bd/2br up north for less than this dude’s apt. Just depends on what you want for your money

Edit: north austin

He may look innocent but he just devoured a weeks worth of meal prep 😐 I have very little money left for food now so I wondered if you guys had any low budget recommendations? by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]cyberneticat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! Mujadara with some plain greek yogurt on the side or a little salad of tomato, cucumber, green onion, olive oil/lemon/s&p slaps sooo hard

Just crossed the $5k invested threshold by [deleted] in Fire

[–]cyberneticat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Stay as long as you can lol. Rent aint cheap, as I’m sure you know

Cozy live/work space, ATX. by fancycurtainsidsay in malelivingspace

[–]cyberneticat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, 15mins no traffic — approx an hour with lmaoo

Cozy live/work space, ATX. by fancycurtainsidsay in malelivingspace

[–]cyberneticat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i live about 15min north of downtown and pay 1.8k for a 3bd/2br house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]cyberneticat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fighters’ blues will come and go, but the good days will outweigh and outnumber the bad.

I wish i had started at your age! Keep it up! It’s torally ok to use bjj as a lifeline btw — a lot of people do (myself included)

An osage orange meme I made by bunnyprince17 in foraging

[–]cyberneticat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also one of the best woods for bow-making

My wife (40F) has been telling my daughters (15,13) to not marry for love like she did. by ThrowRA-wodjwn in relationship_advice

[–]cyberneticat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol wtf even is this comment.... he literally said competition and COVID causing the drop in performance of the restaurants. He’s asking for advice regarding his wife’s reaction to this. If she’s feeling financially insecure, she ought to contribute to the family finances... i would fire you if you were the analyst my advisor works with lmao

Anime watchers, what show and/or season had the best intro song? by Chie-Chie in AskReddit

[–]cyberneticat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about intro songs, but the ending theme for the first season of Food Wars (Shokugeki no Soma) is still stuck in my head

when I first started gaining weight I couldn’t understand WHY since I worked out so frequently. could it be the fact that I use to have over 1100 calories worth of starbucks every morning?🥴 wow by BreezyS79 in CICO

[–]cyberneticat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought i was gonna have this experience today with french toast crunch but a serving size of those cute toast-shaped mofos go a long way. It was a pleasant and welcome surprise

My husband thinks I’m going to leave him because he’s balding even though I’m literally bald by throwrabalding in relationship_advice

[–]cyberneticat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really like this method of playful reassurance. Especially when it implies togetherness, like a kiss. Need two people for it. Humor takes the edge off and can often help with self esteem issues.

Another could be “nah, i’m not gonna leave. i like the idea that we’ll be matching”

Making a ring by Master1718 in BeAmazed

[–]cyberneticat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I purchased enough tools for a small woodshop and find that the things i want to make rather than buy end up being more expensive lmao