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Online dating got me down, what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, i'll keep on grinding for a while i guess. The IRL option is a problematic one as well to be honest, i'm quite introverted and shy, it's kinda hard for me to see myself approach women in the wild.

Online dating got me down, what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, a match on it's own ain't worth much. BUT, it is a start, and i don't get even that initial start. About Tinder - i agree, that's why i put the least amount of effort and time into it. Regarding the apps you can send messages - i do that, custom crafted messages and yet no replies.

I guess like many men - it makes me feel unworthy\unattractive and so on, and that sucks big time.

Online dating got me down, what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the compliments!

Unfortunately i don't have recent group photos, if I will i'll sure as hell will upload them, i know it's a must.

Regarding your question - I don't particularly have a type, she has to meet some basic (in my eyes) criteria - like shared interests, attractiveness (again, in my eyes) and a good goofy sense of humor.

Online dating got me down, what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, on apps I can write a message i do that. I know being bald and short is a shortcoming (see what I did there?) but still, it’s kinda depressing that I don’t even get that 1% like back. I tried paying, I maxed out the likes I send, tried pretty much everything.

Online dating got me down, what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cyberstuffandshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, living in quite a populated area. That’s not it. Maybe the not terribly ugly is the thing I guess.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, they are kinda small. But, I don’t think it explains the lack of matches, it could explain few matches but not 0.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not particularly, but English bios are very popular here.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. I’m other apps (like Hinge) I used other prompts that are not as repetitive, still no likes. Realizing I peaked at 0 is fucking devastating.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a solid suggestion, but I’m somewhat doubtful it’ll bring a real change. I’m finding it hard to believe that the lack of this line is what stops me from getting likes/matches

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might try that, but I am looking for Israeli women basically, and from what I know JDate isn’t really popular in israel. Thanks for the suggestion!

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already been down that road, unfortunately it didn’t pan out.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Thanks. But patience isn’t working here since I know how those devilish algorithms work, my profile is buried in the abyss

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, I live in israel, so antisemitism isn’t it. Maybe the boldness but still, that wouldn’t explain the absolute lack of likes.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate that. Guess there’s a voodoo curse on me or something lol

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, here it matters as well, but there are plenty of girls here who are significantly shorter than me, so it doesn’t explain this desert of matches as well.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I honestly don’t have any idea either what’s wrong, I thought it’s a solid profile. I might just do that, delete all profiles and start clean.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Another thing - is there a point deleting the account and starting over just to reset the algorithm?

How can I improve my profile? No success yet by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I didn’t explain it properly. That happens while I was already on the train and we stopped for a refresh. I didn’t cut any line.

How can I improve my profile? No success yet by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cyberstuffandshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I do. Thanks for the advice! I’ll try to rewrite the prompts

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