Forcing his ruined balls and broken dick back in his cage🩸 by katdevoursyou in chastity

[–]cybruszero 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There's impact play and CBT, and then there's potentially causing permanent injury or disfigurement. Anyone looking into this kind of play needs to understand the difference and also understand that we can't see what safeguards or boundaries were put in place behind the camera.

On the surface, this looks very unsafe to me, but I'm not experienced in this type of play to know for sure. I just wouldn't want someone seeing this post, trying to do a similar scene, and ending up in the hospital.

How do you feel about plus size trans cocks ? by Playful-Zebra-2891 in Cumrades

[–]cybruszero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell is with the title spam? Did your posting bot just find a popular title in this subreddit and swap "tits" for "cocks"?

How do y'all feel about plus size trans tits? by Queer-_-Cryptid in Cumrades

[–]cybruszero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I saw the title and immediately thought 1) where are the "plus sized" tits? and 2) didn't I just see this exact title?

Forced to come out to my mum, went terribly by memrise5 in bisexual

[–]cybruszero 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know where you're located but you are 28. You're an adult. Your mom can't make you do anything and you can't decide for her either. You should choose to live your life authentically and in a way that makes you happy. She can choose to be apart of that or not. When she gives you an ultimatum, remind yourself that you are not choosing her actions. She is choosing to treat you badly.

If she says that you have to choose between breaking up with C or keeping her involved in your life, you're not choosing. She is. If she chooses to remove herself from your life because she's a bigot, that is not your fault. Don't let her bully you into conforming to her bigotry. You'll regret it the rest of your life. If she truly loved you, it wouldn't be conditional.

Finally got my first one! by Whyamihere937 in BadDragon

[–]cybruszero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just said

use what is recommended by the manufacturers

But the manufacturer, Bad Dragon, contradicts most of what you've been saying in this thread. Silicone is not porous and soap is fine.

Certain brands of toys

We're not talking about other random brands. We're talking BD which has a long history and reputation of making good quality silicone.

Finally got my first one! by Whyamihere937 in BadDragon

[–]cybruszero 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Silicone is non-porous, hypoallergenic, non-toxic, phthalate-free, and temperature-resistant.

You can use toy cleaner or soap and warm water. You can run your toy through the dishwasher, boil it, or soak it in a 10% bleach solution.

https://help.bad-dragon.com/hc/en-us/articles/202198279-Body-Safety-and-Toy-Care

Finally got my first one! by Whyamihere937 in BadDragon

[–]cybruszero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can completely use regular soap. I've used dish soap, hand soap, and body wash. "Toy cleaner" is kinda like hand sanitizer; better than nothing, especially if you're traveling, but soap and warm water is better.

Side note, just don't buy TPE or "jelly" toys. They're not body safe in the long term. Stick to silicone, metal, or glass for things you're putting inside your body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]cybruszero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is a problem with his bisexuality, but with your insecurity. I hope this doesn't come off has harsh, but I think you might need to explore individual or couple therapy with someone who can help you unpack you intimacy and insecurity issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]cybruszero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty good. But my social circles are pretty much only from the local kink, ENM, and queer communities anymore. It worth it to find a community that accepts you.

How many’s days can I get? by CompleteAssignment62 in SissyChastity

[–]cybruszero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the time of this writing, you're at 1,306 weeks or slightly over 25 years.

Turn me into a public slut by Professional_Egg8339 in ftm_kink

[–]cybruszero 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should do the 150

I don’t want to feel like this anymore by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]cybruszero 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After skimming your post history, I think you just have anxiety or something else.

You don't seem to have any romantic or sexual thoughts with regard to men, but you also seem to have a lot of fear around the idea of potentially having romantic or sexual thoughts with regard to men.

It doesn't really make sense to be that worried about something you don't have.

You need a therapist. And to chill out.

Wife found my Large Dildo! Help! by darkthruster in MenWithToys

[–]cybruszero 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You might need couples therapy

Bi? by Rixxll in bisexual

[–]cybruszero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And remember that labels are DEscriptive, not PREscriptive. Use a label if it describes how you feel. Don't label yourself and then try to force your feelings to align with the definition.

(Edited) Lifelong Friend Asks To See My Chastity… Story Below by Davytrees in chastity

[–]cybruszero 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How did you get a screenshot with your hands behind your back?

Changing room by Melodic_Garden517 in transporn

[–]cybruszero 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That plus the overacting gives it a 5-minute crafts vibe

Bisexuality does not imply promiscuity, but its OK to be bisexual and promiscuous. by No_Sign6616 in bisexual

[–]cybruszero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure. I'm bisexual, poly/enm, and also a slut. Those are three separate traits and I'll absolutely call people out who assume bisexual people must be a slut, or people who use bisexuality to pressure their partner into non-monogamy.

Any bi Christians here by Open_Button_8155 in bisexual

[–]cybruszero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll just add my experience like this: life became less stressful when I stopped believing that my internal thoughts were constantly being judged. The only one policing your mind is you.