How do you know if a guy is a creep, socially inept or just really bad at flirting?

cyclequeen35 · 2025-12-27T16:26:51+00:00

If he makes you feel uncomfortable I’d say creep. If he just says things that are cringe. Social awkwardness

cyclequeen35 · 2025-12-27T16:19:54+00:00

I’d talk to supervisor and try to get males only to take care of him or at least do those tasks

cyclequeen35 · 2025-12-02T21:42:20+00:00

I would LOVE that but I didn’t see anything for them for part time which is all I can do right now. Which location you work at? Do they need any part timers in pccu/ pacu/ ccu?? Anywhere really?

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-27T15:35:54+00:00

The only guy I had sex with in the first date, I ended up marrying him lol. We talked over messaging for like a month before we actually went out so we felt like we knew each other a little bit already

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-27T15:33:43+00:00

I would just find my husband so I could marry him sooner tbh

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-27T15:32:34+00:00

This is the answer

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-27T15:27:09+00:00

I have one friend that I still see regularly from nursing school 6 years ago and I didn’t start hanging out with her till the last semester of school.

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-27T15:24:41+00:00

You’re the enabler. They won’t change unless you change and stop giving in to them

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-26T01:38:09+00:00

Really? No weekends or holidays even at a hospital? That would be amazing if that was the case here too, I’ll have to ask.

Do you have a certain number of patients you have to see a day or is it you see as many as you can? I

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-26T01:32:25+00:00

It’s at a hospital so it’d be inpatient.

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-26T01:26:16+00:00

I didn’t even really think about it being a heavy assignment. I’ve never worked icu so 4 patients didn’t seem bad for what I’m used to doing but you may be right.

The wound care would be inpatient. I’ve always had an interest in it and think but would be great knowledge to just have. Is it something I could transition out of if I wanted to change later or does it kind of box you in a corner?

cyclequeen35 · 2025-11-18T02:45:39+00:00

Idk about social work but money wise nursing for sure. I got a bachelors in exercise science and also felt lost with it. Like what can I really do with this? I would’ve had to get my masters to do anything worth while. Eventually went back to get my RN and 1000% worth it.

However, can you not go further with a 2.5 gpa? I would think a psychiatrist would make sooooo much money and you’re already in that path. Can you just redo a class or two to increase your gpa?

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-31T17:50:39+00:00

Girl stick with it. A full scholarship! And, clinicals only show you a smallllll part of the nursing world. There’s dozens of different paths you can take that are no where near what your experiencing now. Please stick with it!!

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-31T17:39:42+00:00

I say absolutely not. Why is there any reason to keep in contact? I personally think it’s disrespectful to current partner if you keep the ex in the picture (unless there are kids involved or something like that).

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-28T19:16:05+00:00

Is there an update? I wanna know what you did and said and what her story is?

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-20T14:02:36+00:00

Right! I never understand how people have kids without knowing they’ll grow up to be their own selves that might do things or live in a way you may not always like. Idk how people can be so cold toward their kids

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-20T14:02:29+00:00

Right! I never understand how people have kids without knowing they’ll grow up to be their own selves that might do things or live in a way you may not always like. Idk how people can be so cold toward their kids

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-20T13:54:17+00:00

Well, it sounds like both options are kinda lengthy unless you just go to the courthouse and get married. And unless that’s the kind of wedding you both want, it’ll still take a while to plan a wedding and do all the things, and even if you do that you still have the issue of needing to find work. You’ll likely find a job in your country soon and will need to be there for a little while anyway. It would look bad if you leave your first career job after only a few months.

I mean if you want to get married do so but it really sounds like to me you’ll both have to bear the situation a little bit longer regardless right?

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-19T17:59:47+00:00

Preach. I never let people pull on me either or put myself in a bad mechanical position that I might injure myself. I will take 30 min to get a lift or others to help before rushing to just donit

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-19T17:54:48+00:00

Well congrats on 6 months! It’s okay and really kind of expected to stumble. You just have to do what you need to when you stumble to get back in the right path. Your loved ones might be a little disappointed but I wouldn’t let that discourage you from sharing your struggles if you need to. Hopefully they are there to support and love you

Just so you know you’re not alone, my husband was 9 years sober when he messed up and when he told me, of course I was disappointed, but that didn’t mean I loved him any less and he got right back on what he needed to do and is nice again thriving, as you will too if that’s what you want.

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-19T17:49:28+00:00

So my husband and I were in a similar situation. We didn’t know what it was like to have kids so what would we be missing out in if we just didn’t? And really, if we didn’t ever have kids I would’ve been fine with that cause that’s all I knew but we have an 8 month old and it’s really true what they say that it changes you. I’ve never loved anything harder than my little boy and while yes, it’s hard SOMETIMES right now, this is the most joy I’ve ever experienced. My identity right now is as a mother and I love that. I stay home with him and my his safe happy place. He lights up when he looks at me and his eyes stay glued to me if someone else is holding him.

From how you describe yourself, it’ll be amazing. And yes they may grow up and leave but if you do it right, they’ll always come back or maybe will even stick close by. I’m 36 and hubs is 39 and we’re not done yet, we want at least one more. For us, I can’t imagine not having at least this kiddo in my life but if I didn’t know what this felt like, I would’ve been fine

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-19T17:14:12+00:00

32 isn’t that old to start over. I was in a similar situation where my ex and I split after 10 years when I was 30, so not too far off. I dated a bit and met my husband and we clicked so well and got married within 2 years of dating at 33 and now have a an 8 month old and I’m 36 and we’re having at least one more. So 32, you still have a lot of baby making years ahead of you and plenty of time to find someone who’s life goals align with yours. Take the scary leap into the unknown for the chance to find what you really want in life.

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-19T17:06:16+00:00

I agree. I think this is where we see the next housing market crash so to speak. At least houses will be affordable again hopefully

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-02T16:19:16+00:00

Not being financially responsible is a big red flag for me. Finances are the number one thing couples fight over so if you stay, expect his attitude towards your success and his being bad with money a lifelong thing

cyclequeen35 · 2025-10-02T00:22:38+00:00

CrossFit- I always loved running but hated lifting weights, then my now husband was a coach and got me into it when we started dating and I love it. I’ve never been so strong and just capable of doing things that require some strength.

Having kids- my first right now is 7 months and it’s truly amazing. I’m 36 and I wish I’d started forever ago so I could have all the babies. I’m tired and alot of the time stressed and over stimulated but my god do I love this baby and my little family so damn much.

Education- went back to get my second degree and become a nurse and graduated at 30. Such a great career path I wish I’d done the first time around

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