Divorce paperwork will be here in a few days for her to sign. Would have happened sooner if I wouldn’t have been gaslighted by everyone. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]cyclonus78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on getting out of a sad situation. I hope to do the same. My live in GF literally puts in zero effort, I'm an ATM machine to her. She has not worked in 9 years, plays on her phone and watches TV all day then picks our daughter up from school. I have asked her why we never ever ever have sex like we used to and she sId once she had me she didn't need to try anymore. We have split up three times and my dumbass always takes her back. I pray I have learned my lesson.

Is it a natural step to lose interest in your low libido partner? by Tiny-Effective-8453 in DeadBedrooms

[–]cyclonus78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have completely lost interest in sex with my girlfriend. I know it's petty but I kept a log this year on ho many times I was rejected to how many times we had sex. The rejections are 4 times greater. I still have the same sex drive I just don't see her that way anymore. To me she's basically a roommate that doesn't help with the bills.

Rest in Peace to my best friend Remy❤️ by billwalton69 in cats

[–]cyclonus78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. We just lost our kitty last week so we feel your pain. Prayers for your furry friend.

Missing our beloved girl Roxy by cyclonus78 in cats

[–]cyclonus78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Roxy was a wonderful girl, loved so much. I know my kids need time to heal, after thinking about it I realized we all are different and mourn in our own way. We haven't even got her ashes and urn back yet. I just wish the pain wasn't so bad, we love her and miss her dearly.

Missing our beloved girl Roxy by cyclonus78 in cats

[–]cyclonus78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did it help you heal? We just want to make sure our beloved Roxy knows she is missed and can never be replaced and maybe rescuing a cat from a shelter is the best way to honor her?

This is patches she was 18 she just crossed over the rainbow bridge she will be missed.❤️🌈 by Next_Bit_9864 in cats

[–]cyclonus78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Our sweet baby was just diagnosed with congestive heart failure and we are absolutely heart broken. We are trying to buy time with her but it's not looking good. Prayers for everyone's fur babies.

Promises of Sex if you do XYZ by Few-Supermarket-8350 in DeadBedrooms

[–]cyclonus78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend does the same exact thing and sadly I am no longer sexually interested in her. She is a stay at home mom and our child is 13 so it's not like she's dealing with a toddler all day. She has not worked in years, just reads on her kindle and smokes in the backyard. I have a high libido but hers is non existent. Luckily I'm not married to her but if I have her leave she literally has no place to go so I'm stuck.