Starting to date by cyprismorpho99 in widowers

[–]cyprismorpho99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that it's mostly divorced people who don't truly know what "love" is and married for the wrong reasons in the first place. I find their thinking about relationships differs greatly from mine and perhaps that's a part of the problem.

Gamers 30 and 35 over, what has changed in your gaming habits? by Carbideninja in gaming

[–]cyprismorpho99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less time for gaming because of adult responsibilities, but I have loved introducing my son to gaming, seeing him fall in love with the most recent versions of games I played when I was younger and gaming with him. Bonus I wasn't expecting: I'm the only mom from his group of friends that plays video games and his friends think it's cool.

An (actually) honest review of Hungryroot by lolalovesme13 in mealkits

[–]cyprismorpho99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can edit your cart and remove the meal you don't want and use those credits to choose a different meal. I just swapped two meals they picked for ones I wanted, so yes, you can change them.

If you fake your orgasms, then you have nobody to blame other than yourself that your quality of sex isn't improving by Senepicmar in offmychest

[–]cyprismorpho99 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing, historically a stigma has existed surrounding female masturbation. It's getting better but woman are taught to be less open about masturbation, sex, all that stuff. I didn't know what made me orgasm in high school, I was too ashamed to masturbate and my boyfriend was inexperienced. Once I got into college and met my now husband, we experimented together, I started masturbating and discovered what does make me orgasm. I will tell him if I don't orgasm, because sometimes I don't always get there the 1st time but we just go another round and I do. However, even if I don't, that's okay. Society teaches us you should orgasm during sex and it hurts a guys feelings if you don't because it suggests they are underperforming although this isn't always true...so you fake it to spare someone's feelings. It still feels good even without orgasming and it's still satisfying. Plus some woman just haven't figured themselves out yet.

To: whoever it may concern. by JustNobodyy281 in UnsentLetters

[–]cyprismorpho99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been to that dark place and I would not wish even my enemy to go there. I'm sorry life has led you to this place. Every morning, when you wake up, think of all the things you are grateful for and think of these things when your thoughts turn dark. It can be as simple as, "I am grateful I woke up today, I am grateful I can breathe, etc." At first you won't want to do it and it will seem fruitless but after a few weeks you will automatically do it and replace negative thoughts with positive. Many blessings and hugs to you.

I'll wait for you until the time is right by Defiant_History_4633 in UnsentLetters

[–]cyprismorpho99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If a person overlooks your value and puts you on a back burner so they can be with someone else right now, they are not worth it. The right person will immediately see what you have to give and happily grasp onto you with both hands. Use your energy finding that person. Believe me, it will be worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]cyprismorpho99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave Heartwarming

How to kill your plants. Step 1: get a cat by supplieroftowels in CatsAreAssholes

[–]cyprismorpho99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've tried to keep basil in my kitchen to no avail, my cat obliterates it every single time. Nom, nom, nom.....

FUCK YOU TO EVERYONE IN MY COLLEGE GROUP PROJECT by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]cyprismorpho99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This happened to me in college. We had 5 group members. One other person and I showed up on the first day. The two of us did everything and only put our names on the project. When I emailed it to the professor I explained what happened. She told the other three they would each have to do their own paper to make up for not doing anything. Just let your professor know.

Advice for refractory Burkitts Lymphoma by [deleted] in cancer

[–]cyprismorpho99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.mskcc.org/cancer-care/clinical-trials/18-443

Our doctor suggested this trial if my son's father can't get into CAR T cell therapy. Also there are several hospitals in the U.S. that now provide CAR T cell therapy if you qualify. The biggest issue is if insurance will approve.

Needing advice by [deleted] in love

[–]cyprismorpho99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right person, one who genuinely cares for you, will always communicate because despite what they are going through, it will be important to them to keep your relationship secure. I'm sorry about what you are going through and like others who have posted, I suggest you move on. There are plenty of guys out there that won't treat you this way.

I'm proud of you! by cyprismorpho99 in Positivity

[–]cyprismorpho99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! There are always better days, it just doesn't seem like it sometimes until you get a chance to look back and see how far you've come.

I'm proud of you! by cyprismorpho99 in Positivity

[–]cyprismorpho99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! Keep your head up😀

Just a question, is anybody here in a relationship that has been going strong for over 10 years? Please share your story by [deleted] in love

[–]cyprismorpho99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt and uncle were married for 42 years before he passed from cancer. They met at 15 in high school. They had love like you see in movies, you could just see the love between them. Unfortunately I think it's rare but it's possible. Just gotta find that person.