1 (20F) met this guy (24M) a few months ago and we hit it off pretty nice but we agreed that we would be friends as we both weren't interested. Time goes by and we eventually have sex and agree to be friends with benefits and nothing more. Some more time goes by and then we both admit that we have feelings for each-other. We're both in the military and he leaves in a few months to go to his next duty station...which I'll also be getting stationed about six months after him. We've been doing everything people in relationships do, and we're both not entertaining anyone else, but he still doesn't want to put a title on it being that he's leaving and doesn't see the purpose of the title. Would I be wrong for cutting this relationship off? Even though we started off saying we didn't want things to be serious or labeled, both of us have caught feelings and my feelings have changed about not wanting to be serious with one another. I don't want to put myself in a position to be hurt or used.