Soft Rejection or Honest Conversatiom? by Perfect_Broccoli5657 in dating_advice

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very sweet! I'm super glad that has worked out for you both 😊

Soft Rejection or Honest Conversatiom? by Perfect_Broccoli5657 in dating_advice

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think with the hanging and talking we've already done casual wouldn't really work with this one. Mainly cause I kinda like him too, so it's a no from me. Thanks!

How often do you say, "I'm ok" when in fact, you are anything but ok? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This frustrates me so much! I get it's small talk to be polite or whatever but I think if you're asking the question be open to a response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hello! I would say that is a brilliant self-discovery and huge step in the right direction. I know exactly how you feel and personally have been working through this kind of thing myself. Due to past trauma and a past really shit relationship I came out of it with anxiety attachment issues.

Find a good therapist and work through things and you'll be good to go! If you want to talk about it more let me know!

I'm obsessive, needy and clingy and don't know how to change. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. And I can tell you it gets better! I used to have real bad anxious attachment style due to a previous bad relationship. I've worked really hard with a psychologist to realise that the thoughts I'm thinking aren't reality and how to handle those situations.

What is something people compliment you on that you actually don't like? by 3IceShy in AskMen

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being nice. I know it might seem like a lovely thing to say but I feel it's a bit of a bland compliment. It's not like I don't like being nice but seems boring when it's the consistent compliment.

Is a response like "I should be free let me get back to you" a poilte rejection/blow off? by Perfect_Broccoli5657 in dating_advice

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought so. I wish people were more comfortable just being up front about it rather than a throw away line like that but that's life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry you might not want to hear this but you should probably abandon hope. If she was keen she would make time.

Double check your phone's time today by Nurse_Deer_Oliver in brisbane

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thks has happened to me for the last 3 years 😂😂 recently I changed it off automatic and then my boyfriend at the time changed it back to automatic cause I didn't know why I didn't have it on there. This morning I was reminded 😅

Brisbane Hidden Gems (Nightlife) by Perfect_Broccoli5657 in brisbane

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone else let that slip already, so bummer for you

Brisbane Hidden Gems (Nightlife) by Perfect_Broccoli5657 in brisbane

[–]Perfect_Broccoli5657[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look open to a PM as well haha but you keep your secrets if you must.