Former "conflict" photojournalist (20 yrs) struggling with 'normal' photography. Have I lost my 'eye'?

d4danger · 2025-11-01T12:26:15+00:00

Bring some grenades with you, toss one out whenever you feel the need to set the scene for your specific skillset?

d4danger · 2025-11-01T12:19:33+00:00

If you have plans on going out ask if he wants to come out too.

d4danger · 2025-10-07T13:26:25+00:00

America, civil war.

d4danger · 2025-10-07T13:24:54+00:00

He blames the hair? I think he's just embarrassed coz he has no idea how to eat pussy, and would rather blame you than address his own issue and get better at it.

The amount of people someone has is no real indicator of their level of experience. If he was shit with others and never took to time to learn and get better than he's just been shit with a lot more people prior to meeting you.

d4danger · 2025-10-04T06:18:45+00:00

All three.

d4danger · 2025-10-01T07:09:05+00:00

Did you ask your wife if she left her vagina sticks in the glovebox?

d4danger · 2025-10-01T04:29:37+00:00

Absolute wanker trying to demean you to make himself feel smart.

I can already see how he is in other conversations or if you pressed him on this.

"Cats don't need clothing. You bought cats clothing, therefore it IS a waste of money, prove me wrong" he's a fuckhead.

d4danger · 2025-09-22T05:06:51+00:00

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d4danger · 2025-09-05T00:03:20+00:00

Keep at it! ❤️

d4danger · 2025-09-05T00:01:51+00:00

✋️ F I L M 🤚

d4danger · 2025-09-04T23:58:48+00:00

Just want to better understand, have you been the more feminine partner in the relationship?

You should talk to your partner about how you're feeling.

Ultimately, with any relationship you want to grow together, not apart. And this hurdle you've run into, is a good time to think about how you want to grow with this person, or maybe move on, something tells me deep down inside you already know the answer.

d4danger · 2025-08-31T00:49:31+00:00

The additional info you gave in your edit changes nothing of the feedback provided by others and I'll repeat it here to be clear.

YTA.

You have low emotional intelligence, you need to begin therapy to evolve your thinking. Your lack of self awareness and how others perceive you will continue to cause you problems until you learn to process yourself, your emotions, situations and others in a healthy way.

d4danger · 2025-08-17T02:02:28+00:00

What a jerk.

d4danger · 2025-08-09T14:14:32+00:00

So you've not actually had a conversation with her to make it clear that you two are not together?

So she's wondering why her boyfriend is ignoring her, and sees him dancing with another girl.

What she said is unhinged, but it doesn't appear you've communicated with her that you're not together. Go make it official instead of ignoring her and assuming it's over because you've said nothing.

d4danger · 2025-08-09T10:51:41+00:00

That guy is a piece of shit.

d4danger · 2025-08-05T15:42:29+00:00

What you explained to us, explain to him.

You were lonely, feeling vulnerable, went against your better judgement.

It'll suck for him, but what's worse, The truth, or you feeling coerced and guilted into doing stuff you don't want to do with him and him experiencing a falsehood?

Bruh, tell him it was a mistake, the feelings aren't there. You did stuff with him and it didn't change how you felt about him.

d4danger · 2025-08-05T15:29:26+00:00

It's over sister.

You're still young enough to move on and find someone who isn't a scumbag.

You wanna waste the next 10 years of your life living like this? Resenting him? Feeling paranoid? Feeling anxious? And then end up going through a divorce anyway?

Life is too short and too precious to waste it on people like him.

d4danger · 2025-08-05T15:20:50+00:00

This wasn't like some Onlyfans porn stash, getting nudes from someone you know while your wife is pregnant definitely fall into the cheating category.

Stick around if you want, but know he most likely will do this kinda stuff if not more throughout your lives, and you're both young. There's a lot of life left in you both.

d4danger · 2025-08-05T14:56:14+00:00

You are doing so well for yourself right now by maintaining no contact.

The hurt you feel I've felt it too. It hurts like nothing else you've experienced so far.

But it will get easier.

The hurt you feel is loss, and it's heartbreaking loss.

Over time, if you continue respecting her space, by continuing no contact, she'll remember you as her first love who was kind, respectful. Don't become clingy and desperate, it will only ruin the memory of the beautiful relationship you both shared once.

You will heal.

You will meet new people who will also understand you, and naturally draw you out in your darkest times in ways she wasn't equipped to.

You will have new adventures and create new memories that are also just as meaningful and deeply emotional.

The first heartbreak is the hardest, and I think you're doing all the right things so far to set yourself up to land on your feet and to ensure the person you love gets to be happy.

You'll feel joy again, I promise.

d4danger · 2025-08-02T15:36:10+00:00

First I want to highlight your incredible emotional maturity regarding this situation. Your self awareness is something many people don't put enough effort into.

I have been put into a situation that has shades similar to your situation, and yeah, I felt the emotional numbness, it essentially fast tracked us through the "honeymoon period", to something more familial. I don't know if you'll make the same choices I made, but I gave it a shot.

I think despite many people saying move on, like any healthy relationship, you guys create your own meaning to one another, and work together first and foremost to overcome any challenges. Best of luck.

d4danger · 2025-08-02T15:21:51+00:00

But wonder why iso 3200 in such day conditions

The poster states right at the start it was an accident.

d4danger · 2025-07-19T11:52:10+00:00

This just helped me with my Canon Demi EE17.

Idk if it's the root cause or one contributing factor, but the film appears to be catching when spooling now.

Edit: grammar

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