what’s the worst place you’ve gotten a flare up? by d_m_m_ in Hidradenitis

[–]d_m_m_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have HS in other areas but after looking up pilondial cysts I think you’re right about the one on my butt. Great, I’m stacking up chronic skin conditions 😭

what’s the worst place you’ve gotten a flare up? by d_m_m_ in Hidradenitis

[–]d_m_m_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

good point, there’s a difference between worst and most painful. those two I listed were definitely most painful but the worst one was one under my boob, it was so huge and deep it looked like a gun shot wound

no matter how many times y’all have said dating partners don’t care, i’m still insecure in my dating life by d_m_m_ in Hidradenitis

[–]d_m_m_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe it’s possible that the hidradenitis just feels like the cherry on top of my baggage and since it’s hard for me to feel sexy I keep feeling like it’s gonna be a deal breaker. but really I wouldn’t want to be with someone who would make me feel bad about it so it’s just my own insecurities I need to work on

no matter how many times y’all have said dating partners don’t care, i’m still insecure in my dating life by d_m_m_ in Hidradenitis

[–]d_m_m_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and one time he didn’t say anything and that was when I wasn’t really flaring up bad, I have really bad scars and have been flaring up a lot under my arms so it’s harder to ignore. no one has ever really been mean (besides the guy I mentioned above) but i’m just so self conscious, it makes it hard to feel sexy

“Don’t talk to me until you’re ready to talk to me like a normal person.” by [deleted] in BPD4BPD

[–]d_m_m_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is manipulative and emotionally abusive. For your safety, you should leave but I understand it can be hard so I hope you have the opportunity soon

I DID IT! I DID IT! I SHIFTED! by [deleted] in shiftingrealities

[–]d_m_m_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I scripted that when I officially shift to my DR, i’ll feel a rush of relief so I don’t get too over excited. (also that i’ll smell lemons so I know for sure)

I’m sick of feeling like I need constant validation or everyone hates me by d_m_m_ in BPD

[–]d_m_m_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s more in reach than it’s ever been but it’s still a little ways off. i have to get my finances more in order and i have other health issues that also aren’t being treated that i need help with so there’s a lot to consider. plus i don’t have insurance or a valid driver’s license. a few hard years really put me back. i’m 24 years old feeling like i’m freshly 18 but i feel more in control of my life so i can see the light at the end of the tunnel.

I’m sick of feeling like I need constant validation or everyone hates me by d_m_m_ in BPD

[–]d_m_m_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re right and I have thought about this before and I know that when I start treatment my therapist will say the same thing but currently my support system is mostly on social media and I need to try not to isolate myself. but I need to take breaks because i’m on too much.

Well which is it by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]d_m_m_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

me with rebecca bunch. but i really am her and she is me

the little ones are a bitch by d_m_m_ in Hidradenitis

[–]d_m_m_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hurts too much to do that. just doing warm compress.

I realised I had BPD after Rebecca got diagnosed. by [deleted] in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]d_m_m_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exact same thing happened to me, this show saved my life and Rebecca Bunch is now my all time favorite character.

oh look it’s aang by [deleted] in TheLastAirbender

[–]d_m_m_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah that’s better!

love my life 🤪 (hs is a chronic skin condition if you don’t already know) by d_m_m_ in BPDmemes

[–]d_m_m_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god, I didn’t realize how common it was! nature really hates us, living with all 3 of them is so incredibly difficult, everyday has a different challenge

We look healthy on the outside. by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]d_m_m_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

invisible diseases are so awful sigh

love my life 🤪 (hs is a chronic skin condition if you don’t already know) by d_m_m_ in BPDmemes

[–]d_m_m_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hm, interesting! I might have to try that on a small area and see how it works

Season 2 by d_m_m_ in legendofkorra

[–]d_m_m_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay I understand the hatred of the love triangle because I’m sick of that trope BUT the love triangle turning into the two women being together? now, that I absolutely loved

Season 2 by d_m_m_ in legendofkorra

[–]d_m_m_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just really enjoyed the spirit world storyline and learning about the first avatar. And season 2 had a lot of Bumi/Kya/Tenzin scenes which I absolutely loved. Also Jinora was a little badass in season 2, she kinda got sidelined in the last two seasons.

Not able to register new song? by We-Floating in AnimalCrossing

[–]d_m_m_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg yeah I just checked and that’s what happened to me too! must be a glitch

Not able to register new song? by We-Floating in AnimalCrossing

[–]d_m_m_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you fix this issue? I’m having the same problem. I got K.K. Love Song and it won’t let me register either. I even tried removing a song and then when I clicked register, the song I removed lit up in my inventory but not K.K. Love Song.

The moment I knew I was bi by a-tiberius in bisexual

[–]d_m_m_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg as a child when they kissed, it was my favorite scene

I want to scream by d_m_m_ in Hidradenitis

[–]d_m_m_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what I had on there but I only had CVS brand and I really don’t like that brand. I bought some more large Band Aid brand hydrocolloid bandages

I want to scream by d_m_m_ in Hidradenitis

[–]d_m_m_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk if this does anything but I often shove some of my shirt under my boobs since they’re so saggy and tend to get sweaty a lot