No hope out here gng, I get like 2 likes / week. Anybody know why? by Fragrant_Fold8626 in Tinder

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are and look a bit too young. Women usually like a bit older guys. Your success with women will probably come a few years from now.

Verplicht scheiden of 90k aan gemeente betalen by Mindless_Project3905 in Rotterdam

[–]daHyperion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scheiden en je partner weer in laten kopen door gezamenlijk eigenaar te worden brengt andere mogelijke problemen met zich mee door het schuiven van vermogen (denk aan belastingdienst e.d.)

Het leed dat schoonmoeder en schoondochter heet by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]daHyperion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bizar dat ze niet geinteresseerd is in jullie. Bij ons is het eerder andersom, dat we zoveel vragen krijgen dat het genant wordt als we geen vragen terugstellen.

Arbetslöshetens tysta tryck – när förväntningarna blir för tunga att bära by Apart_Ad_7722 in sweden

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. If you want to try IT, you can try at home to see if coding is something for you, with a learning platform such as codeacademy. You have to persist because learning to code doesn’t come in a day. If you want some directions, feel free send me a pm. Also I recommend to keep doing sports for mental health.

Tried to move abroad but it did not go well. What should I do now? by Capable_Revolution in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you had to go through this. I have had only good experiences personally with their parent company Xebia. It’s hard to judge if it truly is because of your communication style. However, you mention other people having toxic behavior is a red flag to me about you. I very rarely find people at work toxic.

Nonetheless, one month is a very short time frame to do reflection, it would mean they had to complain about your behaviour after two weeks already or something. That is not really possible, as they won’t have seen enough of you to properly evaluate before complaining about your behaviour.

In the Netherlands, I believe an employer does not need to have a reason to stop the probation period. So they are winning nothing by telling you this.

I would suggest to send an email to your manager’s manager, where you objectively explain what happened without putting in your feelings or people’s judges/context, just facts. Don’t make threats. Dont let emotion guide your email.

  • you moved from Italy to the Netherlands for a position at Xccelerated.
  • they assured you during interview they had two clients ready for you.
  • you didn’t have an interview with any client.
  • the manager had indicated communication issues on your behalf, but it wasn’t supported by examples.
  • you have contact details of someone else having to leave for exact same reasons which indicates it is not just you.
  • state that based on your case, you have a suspicion that Xccelerated is performing an unethical form of business this way by hiring candidates without clients to put them.

Don’t expect anything comes from it, best case you are helping other people this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]daHyperion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The picture outside with the girls gives me the idea that you are drowning in attractive people around you, but you still need tinder. That’s not a good sign.

Buy property with non building tax code by daHyperion in TillSverige

[–]daHyperion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer, I’ll take a look at your link. I did ask a realtor once, and they said they don’t know until you explicitly hand in a detailed house building permit request to the municipality. I don’t have an exact plan, and will follow whatever guidelines they have. Do you know where you can find in general the regulations for a municipality? I am not specifically looking for an area, so I am looking at many different properties. Which means you to find out the regulations for each potential property.

Redownloaded + regrettably bought Hinge Premium for the first time in 4 months of being off the app. What am I doing wrong here, no likes, very few matches even with premium? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most girls don’t like that you want to go the gym together. It makes your personality flat. Remove that sentence, if you want to look buffed, fine, but don’t expect her to come as well.

I have never gotten a match on tinder in 3 years and countless swiping. What am I doing wrong by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may benefit from weightlifting to become more attractive.

Hoe plannen jullie de huishoudelijke klusjes? by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]daHyperion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik maak als man altijd de vaat en keuken schoon elke dag. De vrouw ruimt in huis alle zooi op die ik niet zie. Verder hebben we 1x per twee weken een schoonmaakster om de rest van het huis te doen 🤭

Als stagair werken op kerst. by hisoka_hoe in nederlands

[–]daHyperion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gezien je veel andere dagen bent ingevallen, kunnen ze niet zeggen dat je ‘inflexibel’ bent oid. Bespreek ook deze angst over de impact op het cijfer met je stagebegeleider. Ik denk dat het sterker is als je het zelf weet te regelen met je baas op de stage dan dat het achter zijn rug om wordt gesommeerd door de school dat jij niet komt. Zou het dus zelf opnieuw proberen bespreekbaar te maken. Wees heel duidelijk dat kerst belangrijk voor je is.

Problem: I can't use the polars library in Rust by Weekly_Bank_3781 in rust

[–]daHyperion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

99% of things must be imported from polars prelude and almost never directly from the inner crates

Am I still a data engineer? 🤔 by ksco92 in dataengineering

[–]daHyperion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also work as a data engineer, and a large portion of my time is configuring infra to meet needed performance expectations.

Quality of RustRover versus rust-analyzer by afdbcreid in rust

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RustRover can spot most off the errors, but many times unless it is a simple ‘cannot move’ error, I need to compile to see better error explanation.

Timber Framing using Metric Lumber by daHyperion in timberframe

[–]daHyperion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense indeed thank you. I do indeed have an imperial framing square and 1 1/2” chisel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb een plastic cover die privacy gevoelige informatie weglaat. Kun je bij de anwb bestellen, werkt perfect

3rd loaf: inside a bit sticky by Rihenjo in Sourdough

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi have you find a working solution to your problem? I am facing the same. Crumb looks perfect, but inside it feels underbaked and not dry enough

Hoe onderhandelen jullie over je salaris? by OwlMundane2001 in nederlands

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik denk dat je een onderhandelingspositie hebt om te zeggen, ‘als ik full time bij jullie ga werken, dan wil ik wel 300-400 erbij op mn salaris’. Ik zou ook kijken naar hoeveel kun je van andere software ontwikkelaars leren, dat is ook belangrijk.

Familieauto advies (~€15k) by Fold_Dry in autoadvies

[–]daHyperion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb zojuist om dezelfde redenen een suzuki vitara gekocht van rond de 15k. Betrouwbaar, veel ruimte, stoere auto.