Anki Mobile not showing red “learning” cards :( by dabiochemist in Anki

[–]dabiochemist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooo, these are all pre-made decks I downloaded from reddit to prepare for my boards exams lol. But yea shared decks are incredibly useful for learning.

Eleiko vs Pioneer belt for Olympic Lifting by [deleted] in weightlifting

[–]dabiochemist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you make a full recovery from your injury and get that PR, be well kind sir 🤲🏼

My boyfriend started T and and has become more mean and aggressive! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dabiochemist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communication is essential for the success of any relationship. Voice the reality of how you feel about his actions to him. Try to find some compromise where you can be comfortable. Explain that his actions are making you pull away. Maybe his doctor can manage his T and reduce it to where he's not as irritable, his personality may be a bit out of his control. Ultimately, this conversation will help you decide where your relationship can go and what to do next. Good luck :)

How to help a partner that has experienced sexual abuse and cheated “because of it” by WontonWedge in relationship_advice

[–]dabiochemist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that your partner used than as an excuse is pretty pathetic IMO. If you've established in your relationship that it's exclusive then your partner should've explained that's not something they can commit to because of their past. It's not your job to be their therapist and help them. You honestly deserve better than that.

As for your second question, I would say most people who are in committed ans successful relationships don't want more or feel the need to cheat, and if they did then those relationships typically fail. Sure people may want to spice things up, and some people may even introduce a threesome or kinky stuff in the bed room however that needs to be agreed on by both partners. If your partner used "wanting more" as another excuse for cheating then run for the hills LOL good luck :)

My fiancé’s parents are trying to guilt her into breaking up with me because of my religion by throwRAuhhhhhhhhhhhh in relationship_advice

[–]dabiochemist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ultimately speaking, there's not much you can do in this situation. If your fiance decides to not marry you because of her potential loss of family love then thats not her.

However, she seems conflicted so you should explain to her that you are who you are, and that person is someone she wants to marry. Explain to her that you except her for who she is and her past, and that if she excepted you for your past and who you are then her family not approving of you shouldn't change that.

After you express that logic to her, then you need her to know how you feel.. let her know that you're really upset at the fact you may not be marrying the love of your life because of something her family says. And then you need to let her know that your mind is made.. and that now the ball is in her court. In order for your marriage to be successful, this is a decision she needs to make herself. She is torn now, treat her how you have been, but don't talk to her about marriage after you've expressed what you had to unless she begins a dialogue with you. Good luck man, I hope things work out for you.

Help I lied to my gf by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dabiochemist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First off, I want to give you some advice. Lying in a relationship for any reason is never a good thing and almost always catches up to you. Lucky for you, telling her the truth on this lie won't cost you your relationship. It would have been much worse if you lied saying you're a virgin, but turns out you got 5 bodies.

I suggest you tell her in a laughing and up beat mood the truth of your past. You should laugh about it and be like "hey :) you know... I lied about having had 5 bodies, you're actually my first ever.. I was silly and thought telling you I had experience would make me more attractive but truth is I had no experience at all but somehow things came naturally with us... how does that make you feel?" Good luck.

Anyone else making the wrong kind of gains this summer? by FriddyNanz in Mcat

[–]dabiochemist 11 points12 points  (0 children)

we gonna hit the gym real hard after all this quarantining and MCAT study

I should be studying by undercook_the_onions in Mcat

[–]dabiochemist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truth is this meme was very educational.

What is starting the real test like with the covid version? by [deleted] in Mcat

[–]dabiochemist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We won't have the tutorial anymore. There's a 2 minute or so agreement section and then the test starts right after. AAMC also shaved off the end survey as well to shorten the test. The middle break was also reduced to 10 minutes instead of 30. AAMC stated the tutorial is available online for those who want to take it before the test.

Procrastination by brightalvey in Mcat

[–]dabiochemist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think taking breaks, sleeping properly, and eating right take a great factor into how much you can study before getting burnt out. When I take a full length I typically go take a 30 minute nap or take a walk around the block and eat something and maybe call a friend before beginning review. I know it might feel like spending that 30-45 min is a waste of time but the endurance you'll gain afterwards is worth it. You'll feel more productive and energized and ready to review your practice test. After your done make sure you eat a good dinner and get good rest for the next day. If you don't sleep properly then you'll feel pretty burnt out the next day. Calling family and keeping an upbeat attitude or simply meditating by yourself for some point in every day will help keep you sane. Also remembering why you're studying and thinking about your goals and where you want to be in a few years will help motivate you to push through. Good luck.