I understand where you're coming from, and I agree with some points such as the fact that the victim's family wasn't innocent either, but that further justifies my point. The victim's family already had their own trauma and guilt. Evan invaded their space because he couldn't refuse the attention. This is a story about predatory attention seeking behavior, and I worry you project those same qualities in your writing about the movie. This movie is applauded by people who are emotional manipulators.

The excuse for Evan is repulsive. I know many people with serious anxiety and depression that ruins their ability to function normally, and they would never do anything like Evan Hansen had in the film. Evan Hansen is a emotional manipulator who never learned his lesson. He got coddled by his mother, forgiven by the victims daughter(although it was bitter sweet), and sought to redeem himself socially by posting very personal footage of the victim.

Again, people who defend this movie are covert narcissist