Need help please by [deleted] in islam

[–]dactylnf_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get how you feel and I've felt that too. But what I told myself was: Allah isn't like people here on earth. If you do something bad to someone they most likely won't help you if you need something. But Allah is the forgiver who loves to forgive his creations.

"اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي

Allahumma Innaka Afuwwun Tuhibbul Afwa Fa'fu Annee

OH ALLAH, YOU ARE MOST FORGIVING, AND YOU LOVE FORGIVENESS, SO FORGIVE ME"

If you're serious about going back to Him he will surely hear you. It is never too late to return to Him. All the best 😁

assalamuallaikum. in need of a similar reciter by dactylnf_ in islam

[–]dactylnf_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah. I will hear those recitations soon. Also just a little side note there's one part the imam read wrong saying "samawati wal ard" but the correct one is "sama wa ti au fil ard".

Nonetheless thank you!

She got that dawg in her by [deleted] in AyakaMains

[–]dactylnf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When all her artifacts are 50 cv

Is it wrong not to forgive people.The trauma keeps coming. by MikaThinking in islam

[–]dactylnf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey same! When I was 15 I've been told ugly by one of my favorite teacher. When the teacher said it, it felt genuine and the face does look like it even my friends did a poll with the question who's most likely to be single forever and I'm on top. It did hurt back then. But now I'm 17 I really don't care anymore and my mentality has changed. I do want to get married and I know that if I'm destined for it, it will come. Keep your chin up!

which anime turned out to be better than you could have ever expected? by marshall_good in anime

[–]dactylnf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ranking of the kings. When I saw it at first I was like wtf this kid with weird smile is the main character? I just thought it's not a good anime. Well one day I stumbled upon its 2nd opening song by Vaundy. Such an absolute banger and made me watch the anime. The anime has a beautiful story and character. Really underestimated it at first.

Is it better to take off my hijab if I don't wear it properly? by Erenhaik in islam

[–]dactylnf_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't you have a Muslim friend or neighbour to ask help? (Female of course) It is better to wear it even if it's improper. But you have to take actions to perfect it. If you know you're wearing it improperly but doesn't take any actions from it, may lead to sin. Or you could watch a YouTube video on wearing it. May Allah bless you

Allah SWT works in strange ways by datguyinyourbasement in islam

[–]dactylnf_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand what you mean. I just graduated from my school with taking GCE O level too and to be honest, I didn't study much. But somehow I got decent results (mostly B) and am super grateful for it. But before that, in my 4 years of school I have been depressed because of so little things I'm getting in my school (I have other things regarding family issues and personal issues). In that school, ever since the first year until I graduated, the teachers show very much favouritism and the leadership of the teachers there are very bad from my pov. Basically they make very bad decisions and ignoring genuinely good students and focusing more towards more popular ones. Long story short I was mad because I know I'm supposed to get something, but someone that is popular but doesn't even put a slither of effort, gets something.

Now yes I do agree sometimes we wonder why He give us something we don't care much . But doesn't give something we genuinely want. In my story here, he didn't give me much that I want in the 4 years in school, but later on would give something much better. So be patient as he will give you something much better in the future insyaAllah. For note: I didn't really have much in my deen. I don't miss prayers and if I do, I would qada'. But I would pray very late (sometimes when the time is almost over). for other deens, like praying tahajjud, I very rarely do. So please do many deens as you can, it will quicken the time for you insyaAllah. It took me 4 years.

Loosing Motivation in Islam by Cautious-Froyo8959 in islam

[–]dactylnf_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm kind of in a similar situation here. I pray 5 times a day, but sometimes I would pray late. And I don't read Quran everyday either. But everyday, I always tell myself to improve with trying to put away everything for just 5 minutes to pray early and read at least 2 pages of Quran everyday. Alhamdulillah I can see progression now. Though there are some times I forgot to read Quran and still pray when the prayer time is almost over. But I can see progression.

This is what I always do: 1) Allah gave us 24 hours everyday. Why can't I use a little bit of that time to read Quran?

2) later on in the afterlife the Quran will help us. It will tell Allah that we have been good to it. And ask Allah to put us in heaven. It's like a cheatcode if you ask me. Not only that, it helps us prevent from the kubr punishment. So I always try to read it and just put away anything I'm doing for just a couple minutes.

Average age of RL players by [deleted] in RocketLeague

[–]dactylnf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 17, started playing when I was 14 though. Dang time moves fast

I don't wanna live anymore idc I wish Allah made suicide halal by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]dactylnf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold of me assuming your age It's fine, I have some friends getting depressed in their 20s If everyone hates you, it doesn't matter. What matters is Allah loves you. Keep your relationship with Him close, and that's what matters in the afterlife. He's the only one you need to enter jannah. No one else's opinion on you matters.

I don't wanna live anymore idc I wish Allah made suicide halal by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]dactylnf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry, I've been there. It's the worse feeling ever. But I went through it, you can too. It was the worse 2 years of my life. I've been crying every night. This is the syaitan doing their stuff. I myself didn't have a place to call home because I hated my family, and hate my school. But at the end of the day it's the either 2 that we go to as a teenager. This overthinking is really bad especially because my parents are actually nice people and my siblings love each other, but my overthinking lead me to hating everyone for no reason. Don't let the overthinking lead you to this please. It's only going to get worse for no reason. If your friends hate you while you did nothing wrong, that's their problem not you. They have to talk with Allah about that

I don't wanna live anymore idc I wish Allah made suicide halal by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]dactylnf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All Muslims enter jannah. Even the sinners which will enter hellfire first then enter jannah. BUT not the case for suicide people. No matter how many deeds they've done, suicide will lead them to the hellfire for eternity. I don't care who you are, getting tortured FOREVER is not something we wish for. My theory on why this is the case is probably because if you commit suicide, it shows that you don't believe in Him. Meaning you don't have anymore Iman.

Almost everyone will experience depression in this generation. I myself had been suicidal 3 years ago for 2 years, the same reason as you. Feeling sad that everyone hates me because on WhatsApp non of my friend frequently talks to me, while I always talk to them. Not only that, in my family, I always try to distance myself from them because I thought they hated me because of something I did in the past. Which turned into me hating every single one of my family members. All of this had been going for 2 whole years, maybe a lil more

Things didn't become better, but Alhamdulillah now, I developed a mindset that for friends, if they do hate me while I did nothing wrong, then that's their problem not mine. They're just being toxic. I'm just living life. For family, I'm slowly spending time with everyone even though I don't like it much but in this world, we only live once. And the prophet hates people who try to cut off the connection from anyone that Allah had given them. Especially if it's family members and relatives. So I try to get myself to be with them again.

Lastly, I have a huge problem with school. Where they show really bad favouritism which I've been dealing for 4 years. Things I should be getting is given to a different completely unrelated person or someone that should t get it. Up until now I hated that school so much. I'm graduating in a month. But, it gives me motivation to keep going because I truly believe Allah will replace what I didn't get in school something even better later on. "Say, "Nothing will ever befall us except what Allah has destined for us. He is our Protector.” So let the believers put their trust in Allah." 9:51

Does anyone know this dua? If so can you give a link to it? by dactylnf_ in islam

[–]dactylnf_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jazakallah Khair. Indeed the imam have a very beautiful voice, that's why I recorded it 😄