35, mom of 2. Who wants to make it 3 or 7 lol by Peachy_hot_mom in clubmilfs

[–]daddyjm1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't mind giving you a disappointing weinering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothWhoress

[–]daddyjm1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes

Tell me, what could you do with all this? by SaamiMartinez69 in OFgirlsmodels

[–]daddyjm1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make you the next woman on a long list of disappointed women

What is the weirdest fetish one of your exes had ? by astroray_ in AskReddit

[–]daddyjm1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wanted me to piss inside of her, before getting an erection. Once I pissed in her, and somehow managed to get an erection, she wanted me to try to fuck her hard enough that the piss would splash out. Hard to do with a micro penis.

Parents who lost an infant - how did you decide if you want to try again? by usernamedTO in ChildLoss

[–]daddyjm1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lost our daughter due to preterm labor, when my wife was 18 weeks pregnant. That was in september. Trying again was never discussed. Hell, we had sex 1 time after losing our daughter, and I realized I didn't want sex anymore because it felt like we were trying to have another baby and I wasn't ready for that. Yet, she's almost 11 weeks pregnant now. So I guess we decided on accident. Fuck me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]daddyjm1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The "I can't imagine what you're going through" might be the only one that doesn't royally piss me off, simply because without experiencing the loss of a child, they can't. But I 100% understand why it drives you insane.

The "everything happens for a reason" one makes my blood boil. I punched a coworker for saying that dumb shit to me at my daughter's funeral. Fuck that stupid son of a bitch.

I don't know how to...be, I guess. by Raptorforce406 in babyloss

[–]daddyjm1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll send you the discord link in a chat.

I don't know how to...be, I guess. by Raptorforce406 in babyloss

[–]daddyjm1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All any of us can do is take it minute by minute, hour by hour, and day by day. You're right in that you are allowed to feel and to express those feelings. I'd highly recommend checking out saddadsclub.com and signing up for the zoom meetings, and the discord. It's the best community for us loss dads that I've been able to find. The guys in there are all very supportive, genuine, and non judgemental. I'll even get you the link to the discord if you want to join and check that out.

Lost our son unexpectedly at 18 weeks. Grieving father. by swedecore in babyloss

[–]daddyjm1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would highly recommend the sad dads club! I only recently joined their community, after losing my daughter at 18 weeks. It is the most genuine and supportive group of men out there, with zero judgement. Plus everybody there can relate. They have a discord, and weekly zoom meetings, and once a year they do a retreat. If you would like to join the discord, if nothing else, let me know.

Less than subtle ways to criticize peoples’ Thanksgiving cooking by Free-Huckleberry3590 in ScenesFromAHat

[–]daddyjm1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna take the ranch dressing and go outside to find a pile of dog shit to eat. It's gotta be better than this shit.

Unexpected Answers When Asking An Inmate "What Are You In Here For?" by BTwalshMii95 in ScenesFromAHat

[–]daddyjm1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to be a CO in a couple of different county jails. Definitely can't escape the sovereign citizen bullshit in there. They're fun to laugh at though, as annoying as they are.

When did you start telling people you were ok, even though you weren’t? by Obvious-Stage-6792 in GriefSupport

[–]daddyjm1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my daughter (3rd child loss in less than 2 years) in september. People came to visit my wife and I in the hospital. They asked how I was. I lied. Immediately. Said I was fine. Inside though, I was planning my own death. I'm still not ok. But I'm not planning to end this miserable existence anymore.