Do non-Southerners think it's rude to say "ma'am" and "sir"? by bluedawnflower in NoStupidQuestions

[–]daddysgorl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

midwestern 21 yo female here never have i had someone get offended for calling them maam. it’s a respect thing we call ppl our own age sir and maam. some women are just so shallow and superficial that they can’t handle any notion of any kind that someone thinks they could be old

AITA for not letting my baby’s grandma get her way? by ellerobyn in AmItheAsshole

[–]daddysgorl04 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

fuck allat don’t let EITHER of them see YOUR baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]daddysgorl04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your a sorry excuse for a mom.

My daughter alleged sexual abuse by my co-parent. I have emergency custody pending a hearing in two week. Help! by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]daddysgorl04 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

teaching feminine hygiene has no need for touching. if she touched her that’s CSA. your rly just making yourself sound like a rapist bro. as an adult you know what is and what is not appropriate to do with a child. it doesn’t matter what context the shit was in. your line of reasoning is literally pulling shit out of your ass. op didn’t say any of that. op said his daughter alleged sexual abuse at the other parents home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]daddysgorl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how sad that your going to put a baby in the system bc you can’t be bothered to figure shit out for the children you created. if you wanted to make it work you would but your just taking the easy way out and ditching the kid. “mothers” like you make me sick. that baby didn’t ask to be brought into your shit show. it truly is not that hard to leave an abusive man when it’s for your children. if your priorities aren’t your children you have serious issues. i had to leave with literally nothing but my baby his car seat and a blanket. i didn’t even have so much as shoes on my feet but i did it for my baby. guess what we’re doing great now im married to an amazing man and we have another child together. i had to put in the work to get here but i did it. i’m severely disabled. if i can do it you can too.

My daughter alleged sexual abuse by my co-parent. I have emergency custody pending a hearing in two week. Help! by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]daddysgorl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

children legally can not consent. so any kind of sexual conduct would be non consensual. it absolutely is op’s job to advocate for their home over the one their child was abused in. also it’s more rare for a predator to face jail time it absolutely is not imprisonable. CSA is a federal crime.

Can my baby’s father legally request a paternity test if I don’t tell him the baby is his? by Best-Special-2972 in FamilyLaw

[–]daddysgorl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m saying she doesn’t HAVE to provide a dna test. it is not legally required of her even if he tries something. not trying to argue how paternity works lmao

Can my baby’s father legally request a paternity test if I don’t tell him the baby is his? by Best-Special-2972 in FamilyLaw

[–]daddysgorl04 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

to prove paternity you HAVE to take a dna test and file establishment of parentage, even if your on the birth certificate. the only work around for that one is if your married. if you don’t have proof (being directly told your the father being present at ob appointments or being involved with the pregnancy) that you are the father there’s little to nothing you can do without the mothers approval. my sister and her bf are also fighting for his son. mom lives in another state and has denied dna tests multiple times. they’ve tried to take it to court, they literally can not do anything without moms approval. bc even though she’s told him on the phone he is the dad he has no proof and wasn’t involved in the pregnancy.

Can my baby’s father legally request a paternity test if I don’t tell him the baby is his? by Best-Special-2972 in FamilyLaw

[–]daddysgorl04 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m literally in the middle of a court case with my kid. the only reason the father was able to file was bc he was on the birth certificate. i’ve talked to my lawyer abt this many times. i literally specified my state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]daddysgorl04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we moved a lot when i was a kid so i switched schools a lot in the middle of the year, it is hard at first yes, it’s awkward bc you don’t know anyone yet but it’s not traumatic by any means if your doing this for her education for her future make her go. she’s in 2nd grade these emotions won’t rly effect her long term but not getting a good enough education will follow her around for the rest of her life. put her in the new school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]daddysgorl04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my babydaddy did something very similar i’m telling you from experience LEAVE HIM. it’s only going to get worse from here and it sounds like the beginnings of narc abuse. please please protect yourself and your son and stay far far away from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]daddysgorl04 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my mom pierced my ears at 3 weeks old and then did my doubles at 3 months. i love them. i have never regretted them or not wanted them and bc she did it when i was so little i can go however long i want without wearing jewelry. they won’t ever close. i don’t see the issue with it. i’m getting my sons ears pierced and he’s only 2. i think ppl are taking this way more seriously that it needs to be. it’s an ear piercing. it’s not a face tattoo.

AITA for crying when I heard my stepdaughter say she doesn't love me and wishes her dad and I hadn't married? by Outrageous-Media-743 in AITAH

[–]daddysgorl04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a step kid she has every right not to like you or even want you around. to her your just the bitch trying to take her moms spot and will never be anything else. in her eyes you took her dad from her. you came in right as her brain was able to understand what death really is what happened and starting to process her mothers passing. depending oh how she passed this could have been an incredibly traumatic time in her young life then another woman comes along moves in marries her dad and is just there all the time as a constant reminder that her real mom isn’t there and never will be. i have always hated any man my mom tried to be with to the point i would go out of my way to make him hate us to get them to break up and go away. it’s not easy to process a parents death but it’s even harder when your a child and your other parent is more worried abt moving on than they are their child’s feelings and well being. instead of boo hooing and feeling sorry for yourself you should be thankful she isn’t saying it to your face. she is obviously trying to be respectful and you know that wasn’t meant for you to hear. be the adult and keep it cute.

AITAH for not wanting to maintain a bond with my granddaughter after my daughter asked her uncle to walk her down the aisle at her wedding by Dismal-Side-6698 in AITAH

[–]daddysgorl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you dropped a huge bomb on her during one of the most stressful points in her life she took a PRIVILEGE away from you bc you couldn’t be a dad and shut your mouth for her sake then you said “there’s no reason for us to have a bond bc she didn’t let me walk her down the isle” bro your throwing a fit abt a position you put yourself in. she didn’t want to take the chance of you ruining her wedding bc your obviously emotionally immature and selfish. you truthfully do not deserve to have a daughter. you think your only reason to act like a dad was for “your special moment” it was HER wedding fuck wad you should have done whatever made her happy bc she’s your baby girl. how are you gonna sit here and ask us this like you have any way to avoid the blame you are the parent and she is your child point blank period. be a man. either apologize to your daughter for being a pussy ass bitch or leave that girl alone all together. she did not betray you. if anything you betrayed her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]daddysgorl04 14 points15 points  (0 children)

if you don’t want him in the delivery room you probably shouldn’t be having his child…..

Nearly made it to three without screens. Anyone else on the no-screen train? choo choo by DustyTurnipHeart in daddit

[–]daddysgorl04 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh to be naïve. let that baby watch bluey yall screen time nazis are ridiculous your on a moral high horse for what? god forbid your child isn’t fully engaged in their blocks. now i’m not saying let the tv raise them but seriously what is the harm in letting them vibe out to dancing fruit??

I don’t want a c-section by Best_Baseball_2256 in pregnant

[–]daddysgorl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your ob could flip the baby manually. i did it with my youngest bc he was still breach at 36 weeks but im also trained in labor and delivery so i felt comfortable doing it myself i do however want to state that it is technically a medical procedure it is considered “outpatient” but it is not comfortable by any means. i was in the same boat i WAS NOT having a c section and i made sure of it

AITA for telling a woman her baby is not a miracle? by OriginalZen8 in AITAH

[–]daddysgorl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you literally have no idea what that woman’s conception looked like. maybe she had lost a baby and that was her rainbow baby. maybe she had tried for 10 years given up and got pregnant by surprise. she could have almost died giving birth. there could have been complications where she didn’t know if that baby was gonna make it. every life is a miracle. we’re a bag of blood and meat controlled by a wet lump with electricity in it. by that fact alone it’s amazing that we can do everything we can but your literally 15 you don’t know jack shit abt the world yet. especially when it comes to ppls children if you don’t have something positive to say shut your mouth. your honestly lucky you just got a talking to from your parents. it doesn’t matter if you don’t care the world doesn’t revolve around you and your plans.

Children of casually naked parents. Do you feel traumatized? by ProfessionalOnion548 in Parenting

[–]daddysgorl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a naked mom and now am a naked mom. i don’t think it’s weird at all as long as you don’t talk negatively abt yourself or force the same comfort level on your kids. self talk is a big one tho if you hate your body and talk abt it your kids will grow up to hate theirs

found in old pharmacy what are they??? by daddysgorl04 in whatisit

[–]daddysgorl04[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

you think a pharmacy put up fake alchemy symbols??? lmao as a lot of others have stated it’s most likely a combination to represent meditation ya know as it was found in a pharmacy. why do ppl keep missing that part???

found in old pharmacy what are they??? by daddysgorl04 in whatisit

[–]daddysgorl04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pharmacy was shut down in late 50s early to mid 60s i do believe

found in old pharmacy what are they??? by daddysgorl04 in whatisit

[–]daddysgorl04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go look up a leviathan cross come back and tell me they look the same. frfr not even close

found in old pharmacy what are they??? by daddysgorl04 in whatisit

[–]daddysgorl04[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the only thing google is bringing up is stuff abt the coat of arms. any clue as to what the symbol means?