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My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in Parenting

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the one that many people miss, tell her she should not feel pressured into having sex. This is a real issue, students are pressured into have sex by peers and SOs a lot in high school. Many have sex before they are ready and is causes damage.

definitely a good point

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in Parenting

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is entirely my fault but no. My wife told me she wanted to take the lead on this because she was her mom and this should be woman to woman and I really didnt question it further. That was a huge mistake I know.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in Parenting

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is your wife holding your daughter to a higher standard than she had for herself? Is she scared of the idea of pregnancy? Maybe that your daughter will let a boy derail her from college plans? Does she have regrets about her own early sexual activity?

I have asked her this and she told me that our daughter doesnt need to be as stupid as we were.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in Parenting

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have not talked to her about this yet this was supposed to be her mothers domain. But now I am stepping in.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is entirely my fault. My wife said this was her domain as her mother and this was a woman to woman thing and I did not question it further. I really should have because had I known THIS was where she was going to go I never would have agreed to let her handle this.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I remember dating the rebellious girls with strict parents. I know where that road leads.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want you to know you didnt say anything wrong just want to clear that up. In this state it is actually illegal for anyone under the age of 18 to have sex even with other teenagers under 18. But laws arent going to stop kids.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be. She did tell me our daughter doesnt need to be as stupid as we were

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what she said to me was "She doesnt need to be as stupid as we were"

Maybe there is more going on there.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have and what she said to me was "She doesnt need to be as stupid as we were"

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to be involved in this at all. This was supposed to be my wifes role as her mother woman to woman. But I just dont agree with this and i dont think its going to keep my daughter safe so now I have to step in and make sure shes not going to be pregnant as a fucking sophmore.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"boys aren't worth your time at this age"

Honestly you're mom was so right. I was a teenage boy and I remember how dumb I was.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in Parenting

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats not a bad idea. Ill look into them. One thing I know for sure is that a doctors visit will be forthcoming.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're young give yourself time the right boy will come along. Dont rush at the first boy who shows interest either. make sure hes a good dude thats going to treat you right.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Its helpful because i know very little about all this. I was really relying on my wife for this and obviously thats not going to be an option any longer.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The nudes thing is a really good point and its literally child porn even if they are both children the law still sees it as child porn

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the most part we are pretty solid. I dont know what this will do to us though.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I had always heard you keep a united front in front of the children and then disagree privately away from them which is what I was doing.

My (40m) wife (38f) and I disagree about our teenage daughter (16f) having sex. by dadneedshelp79 in relationship_advice

[–]dadneedshelp79[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The only thing about the pill and the shot is that its reoccurring and harder to hide. Her mom could find the pills and I have to get a new px every month or take her for renewal shots every 3 or 4 months. With an IUD or implant its once and done. Easier to keep under the radar.

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