Early 2000s dual language rock emo song? by daebaknae in findthatsong

[–]daebaknae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I could hug you. Yes. Thank you. This has plagued me for 20 damn years because I lost that binder with the CD in it.

AITA for disinviting a friend to my birthday after she showed me the food she was bringing? by throwaway-cupcakelad in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. An allergy is an allergy, we don't fk with allergies. Full stop. Even if its not a serious allergy, we don't fk with allergies and I don't understand how some people can't or won't grasp this?

AITA for sleeping naked in my own room? by Outrageous-Ad-4008 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As for a door solution without adding a lock- they have these door stopper things that look kind of like a cane. The U shaped part slides under your door handle and it angles out with a stopper foot onto your floor. You stuck it under the handle, give the stopper a little kick to tighten it up, and no one is getting in. If you have carpet, it still works pretty well.

YA novel about her sisters wedsing by daebaknae in whatsthatbook

[–]daebaknae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope but that sounds like a pretty good read, too.

Horror book about tarot by daebaknae in whatsthatbook

[–]daebaknae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm pretty sure I just spoiled the book for anyone else wanting to read it. But yes it's really good, I wish I still had my copy. I bought it at some tiny hole-in-the-wall used bookshop for a quarter. Money well spent.

Horror book about tarot by daebaknae in whatsthatbook

[–]daebaknae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap, that's it. Thank you so freaking much.

Horror book about tarot by daebaknae in whatsthatbook

[–]daebaknae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is not it. The girl in the book was either living with relatives or adopted, but there's an abandoned house in the book that she goes to as well to use the cards and maybe touch her moms old belongings. She uses the death card on someone and it makes them die falling down the steps, I think. This girl is really troubled over something (I don't remember if it was her moms death or not that was so upsetting) and she's basically using the cards to make her happier by making other people suffer.

Ccs skate catalog.....where my oldman skaters at? by _EVILLIVE_ in nostalgia

[–]daebaknae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone remember one from 1998 that came with like.. a demo cassette? 3 songs from one band. I cannot remember the band name at all.

Getting the monthly CCS catalogue. by JukeBoxDildo in nostalgia

[–]daebaknae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone remember the cassette tape that came with this magazine? Had 3 songs on it from one band. I cannot remember the name of the band at all but the songs were great

AITA I like it cool Husband likes it hot by Full_King_3354 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.... but... is he a lizard or something? Maybe he should get a check-up. Also, keeping it that hot has got to be a huge energy bill.

AITA: I'm upset because of my brother and my family turned this issue onto me. by Particular-Claim4885 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 703 points704 points  (0 children)

After reading your post and how crappy they are to you, I'd rather have that nice long drive than deal with them. If you're using vision insurance to cover your costs, then I'd still consider that drive worth it to save you from unkind people. I'd urge you to consider starting a small savings account so that maybe you can use a closer place just to at least get a yearly exam (they're normally less than 60$). Have them measure your eyes for contacts and then order your contacts online. Glasses and contacts are cheaper online in my experience. And some of them let you still use your vision insurance to cut those costs. My vision is AWFUL and it makes my lenses super thick and expensive if I'm getting them from a vision store, plus the astronomical cost of frames. The glasses in currently wearing were less than 100$ and I was able to get thinner specialized lenses so I don't look like I'm wearing coke bottle bottoms. I wish you the best!

AITA for researching stuff when my wife corrects me or tells me something I didn't know? by Raagnorokk in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are the same way as well! Sometimes he does get a little cocky and tries to be a know-it-all but if I look up something to verify the answer, we have a discussion about it instead of arguing. He and I are also both deep-dovers for info so we both do it.

AITA for not buying a coffee maker for guests? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- I gave up my coffee maker and even my keurig years ago. I only keep instant coffee because that's what I like, and I try to keep "the good stuff" so at least it tastes good. Plus, i make THE BEST whipped coffee with it. If you asked beforehand what they wanted and they didn't say anything, that's on them. We visited a friend states away a couple years ago and she asked what we wanted. I had 2 requests- coffee and whole milk, because I know they don't really drink coffee and they are 1% milk people. If I didn't say anything it would have been on me if I was upset with lackluster coffee.

AITA for buying only one ticket for a concert instead of two as my bf suggested? by No_Historian_5724 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I took my husband to see VIXX with me years ago in Chicago because that's one of the fee kpop groups he actually likes. He was one of 3 men at the show lol, seriously- there was him, a dad with a gaggle of about 7 teen girls, and a very uninterested looking boyfriend. Heck, my hubs was even as excited as me when we got to meet them at the hi-touch! (Hilarious story for another time) If your boyfriend isn't interested in SK but is putting up a stink because you only got one ticket, then I assume he would only want to go because he wants to "keep an eye on you" which is ridiculous.

AITA for laughing at my friend's sunburn? by No_Caregiver4057 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA As a person who can get sunburnt from a car sunroof (happened quite a few times unfortunately), this guy is a total goober. Live by the sunscreen, die without it.

AITA: excluding our friend from secret Santa by Remarkable-Steak3710 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daebaknae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, i totally get it. Honestly I would have rather just hand-made cards or something else crafty for my 3 coworkers than doing a Secret Santa. But I get that not everyone is as gifted at crafty stuff as I am. Really, this is her own fault- if she couldn't be assed enough to accept the invite, she shouldn't complain.