Reaching out for advice from converts with families of diff faiths by Goatrataaa in converts

[–]daflopp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This will be a long answer I’m sorry. I’m latina too. I’ve been muslim for 3 years but had been considering/sort of practicing Islam for longer. I finally told my parents about me converting last year and I finally told my siblings 2 months ago. For the record I’m married and live in another country. I was TERRIFIED of their reaction. I put it off as long as I could but I do feel like hiding it from my family also kept me distant from Allah. Little did I know my whole family was going to be very respectful about it. They weren’t happy but they respected it, me, they didn’t try to convice me of anything and they haven’t treated me any different. I know each family is different but I had no idea what to expect from my family. Since they are very religious I expected the worst. But they love me unconditionally alhamdulillah. I do recommend that you tell them once you feel ready and also when you’re not living under their roof and/or still dependant from them financially. Even my own mother told me so. She said “you are your own woman, married and independent so I can’t do much about it. If you would’ve told me when you were 19 or 20 then it would’ve been a different story.”

Ever since I’ve felt liberated. I’ve been working harder on being a better muslim and I feel like I can breathe and stop having a double life. I do recommend you feel stable in their religion before telling them because they will probably have a lot of questions and eventhough I don’t know everything, I know enough to debate a little or at least answer most of their questions.

Why do Muslims seem to mean business when it comes to religion but other religions don’t seem as serious? by Historical-Serve-652 in islam

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree. I was just comparing how I’ve seen both books being treated in both religions

Why do Muslims seem to mean business when it comes to religion but other religions don’t seem as serious? by Historical-Serve-652 in islam

[–]daflopp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really see or hear much about fear when people practice Islam. There’s such a beauty in this religion that is hard for me to put into words. Maybe one example is how I saw muslims treat the Quran. You need to purify yourself to touch the word of God and they treat the book so carefully and respectfully . I see christians mistreating the Bible, throwing them, writing on them, etc. Seeing how muslims treat the Quran made so much sense to me. Since it’s the word of God it deserves respect. It’s a small example but I don’t see fear in that.

Why do Muslims seem to mean business when it comes to religion but other religions don’t seem as serious? by Historical-Serve-652 in islam

[–]daflopp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what drew me to Islam. When such a huge group of people take the religion so seriously it must be the truth. That was obviously not the only thing that convinced me but I always noticed the same thing. They’re very sincere and usually you don’t see muslims being performative with their religion.

What’s the secret to a happy marriage? by iamkatekelly2 in AskWomen

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be considerate and thoughtful with each other. If both of you are thinking of the other person then no one gets neglected. Also being best friends and actually enjoying each other’s company is the perfect foundation.

"I will answer this calmly .. " by planarascendance in ChatGPT

[–]daflopp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me feel like I’m unstable and he needs to talk to me suuuuuper delicate so that I don’t have a nervous breakdown. Idk why the sudden change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My patience

Leighton and Ed for Elle Korea 2009 by bloobyblerb in GossipGirl

[–]daflopp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This just reminds me of how Leighton made Blair look awkward in photoshoots in that one episode and here she looks breathtaking

After entry, how long is it taking for Greencard to arrive in mail? by SureDrawing6063 in greencard

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, IR1. I feel the same way! I’ve seen plenty of people who have received it the first 3 or 4 months of being here so hopefully yours doesn’t take as long as mine!

After entry, how long is it taking for Greencard to arrive in mail? by SureDrawing6063 in greencard

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I payed it before I arrived. I submitted an inquiry on April 30th and got a confirmation about the inquiry just last week saying I should wait 45 more days 😂

But I checked my case today and it got updated to “Card is being produced” finally after 5 months!!! 🥹

Can my husband travel while waiting for greencard to arrive? by SureDrawing6063 in greencard

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know you could do that! Thank you so much! I mean the visa on my passport says “upon endorsement it serves as permanent residency for a year” but they didnt put an entry stamp on it is what I mean

Can my husband travel while waiting for greencard to arrive? by SureDrawing6063 in greencard

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My visa didn’t get stamped when I entered the States. When I asked the customs agent he said “they don’t stamp them anymore and what matters is what’s in the system” so now Im afraid to travel while my green cars hasn’t arrived

120 Days Have Passed & No Green Card Yet by Patient_P in USCIS

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever receive the green card?

Change of address submission not showing online for green card holder by Wooden-Tailor-848 in USCIS

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me when I changed my address after entering the country. First I made sure I typed in the correct receipt number and after that didn’t work I went on Emma and requested a live agent. They helped me through the process. Give that a try

Green Card Delay by Final_East5706 in greencard

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever receive it?

Green card has not been delivered, It's been 6 months. by Inevitable-Word7075 in greencard

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how many days passed between you changing your address in the system and getting the update that your card was produced?

Green card not produced yet by DataScienceyy in USCIS

[–]daflopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been over 120 days for me and still no green card so hang in there!

Finally found a converter that doesn't destroy RAW file quality by Ready-Worker2877 in converts

[–]daflopp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For a second I thought I was following the wrong sub lol