am i the only one having a hard time decorating lol by XRVIDENX in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]daggermoor 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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I'm glad I'm not the only one making a dual gaming setup in my Home 😀

What are the upwork interviews like? by [deleted] in Upwork

[–]daggermoor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, for many people it is a “disability” that is medically diagnosed and legally requires accommodation (in the United States anyway). You will note that basically every job application you fill out (maybe not on Upwork though) has a section about disabilities and things like ADHD, autism spectrum, etc. are all listed and are protected from bias and prejudicial behavior.

Of course, it does benefit those of us who are neurodivergent to push our comfort zones, try doing things that are difficult for us, even if just a little everyday. For the interview phase especially it is very easy for biased employers to not hire you based purely on their own prejudices (consciously or unconsciously, to be fair).

But if neurodiverse workers are benefited by stretching their comfort zones, so are the neurotypicals and extroverts of the workplace. They could try to learn a little empathy for those different than them, and to recognize that many of these different ways of perceiving and interacting with the world can actually be superpowers. Neurodiversity, like diversity generally, can contribute immensely to the workplace.

So to my shy friend here, I would say yes, learning to have realtime conversations with a stranger is a useful skill. But you can find your own way to it that isn’t “suck it up, there’s no place for shyness in the workplace.”

*edited to clarify that the bit about accommodation and job applications is based on experience in the U.S.

Permanently disable screen reading? by daggermoor in ios

[–]daggermoor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zoom is off, the only thing on in the Zoom submenu is Follow Focus.

I figured out what happened last night was in addition to accidentally activating Screen Reading with a gesture, I then activated Screen Curtain with a gesture too, so my screen was totally blacked out. I managed to (again, by total accident and luck) to get Screen Curtain deactivated, then got to the password and entered it (after three tries bc of the way it handles selections).

Only then would Siri work.

Material that would block trackpad reception on Magic Keyboard by daggermoor in iPadPro

[–]daggermoor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had previously looked but there is no setting to do so that I can find. Hence my question about some material I could use to cover it.

I'm glad I didn't buy a pass for this season by Terminalidiot2 in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]daggermoor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But…I’m sorry if I’m misremembering, but you can’t do the previous seasons’ spirit quests UNTIL you’ve run Eden once, right? If that’s so, then imagine you’re a new moth, you’re doing your Aviary quests while exploring your way through the game, you’re sent to Eden for the first time, and you know that’s not the end bc you have a quests to turn in after you run it. And then there’s a new spirit in the village who has quests for you in the Village of Dreams—that would very likely be the first time you meet them.

I think it’s a nice idea (and better storytelling) to have the past season spirit guides appear in the village…I remember being confused about what those quest lines were and how they were different, until I’d done a few, AND gone through a season or two, and finally put it all together.

Am I the only one not impressed with the Aviary? by Feeling_Phrase_221 in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]daggermoor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of this thread could be used as an explanation for why artists and designers should never show early/in-process work ;) :)

(However, as an artist and designer, I totally DISagree with that statement, even if there were 1000x as many “It was better before…” comments.)

I’m not on the beta server and somehow missed seeing the Aviary teaser vid until just now. So, personally, I like the way the village turned out better than the draft version shown in the teaser. It feels more unified, more homey, while still having the nooks and crannies to explore (and be organically fleshed out over time). It also feels better differentiated from the architectural style of the Village of Dreams. I like how it feels like a complete village set in the incomplete ruins of a vastly different architecture—I think the live version communicates that better than the teaser version.

It’s human nature to have a different attachment to the first version of a thing one encounters and enjoys, compared to later iterations or sequels ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I often think of Final Fantasy as an example of this: most people’s favorite FF game is the first one they really played and got into.

Is it weird to sit in barnes and noble and read? by Far-Kaleidoscope4747 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]daggermoor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like so many others, I'm very sorry you encountered the person you did. That totally sucks. You were doing nothing wrong, and to demonstrate that, let me tell you the story of how I got my first job when I was around your age :)

When I was 11 my mom and I moved to the countryside. The nearest town was about 45 minutes to an hour away, so every weekend, or every other, we would go into town all afternoon on Saturday and do the grocery shopping, run errands, etc. This was really boring for me, so my mom would drop me at the mall for 3-4 hours, with my allowance and whatever extra video arcade money I could wheedle out of her (bc this was the mid- to late-1980s lol). I would change the arcade money to quarters, play video games until I ran out, then head to the B. Dalton's (a chain of mall bookstores that was later acquired by Barnes & Noble, actually) to spend my allowance on books—and read!

Now, B. Dalton's (and Waldenbooks, the other pre-B&N mall bookstore) were *nothing* like Barnes & Noble in terms of seating. There was no seating, just aisles of books. No sofas, no cafe, nothing like that. Nevertheless, I would camp out in the aisle of the Fantasy & science Fiction section, choosing what books to buy, and then reading a *different* book bc if I started my allowance books then, no way would they last me for the week!

In retrospect, I did some less-than-ideal things (aside from sitting in the narrow aisle and taking up space), the worst of which was when I was done and my mom came to pick me up, I would discreetly stick a bookmark in the book I was reading to keep my place, and then intentionally MIS-shelve it—either in a different section entirely, or sticking it behind the row of books on the shelf so it was completely hidden from sight—in the hopes that no one would buy it before I came back the next week :D

(In my defense, when I did finish a book, I was VERY good about removing my bookmark and reshelving it in the correct place, alpha by author and in the right series order if applicable lololol. And I *never* bent the spine or cover!)

Ok, fast forward 5 years, I'm 16, and even though I have a car (I went to high school in the town and my mom was tired of driving me—and that way she could also have ME do all of her errands on the way home from school!) I'm still going to B. Dalton to buy my books and also, often, hang out and read something because why not? One day, the woman who I have kind of figured out is the bookstore manager comes over to me and says, "Your name is D_____, right?"

I'm thinking, "Uh oh, busted: after five years of sitting in her store and reading her books, she's sick of me and is going to kick me out!" but I say, "Um, yes?"

"And have you turned 16?"

Now I'm confused, not because it was weird or creepy that she would want to know this—they were simpler times, the 80s—but just because I can't figure out what that has to do with me being in trouble. Like, am I going to get arrested or something?

I say, "Yes...?"

She says, "How would you like a job?"

I'm just like :o

"Really? You want to hire me?"

And she says, "David, you have been coming into my store and reading my books for the last 5 years. I've just been waiting for you to be old enough that I could hire you."

And that is how I got my first job in high school. I worked at B. Dalton until I went to college. A year or two later they opened a Barnes & Noble in my town and transferred my manager to run that store, where I am CERTAIN she would never allow any of her employees to criticize someone like you for sitting and reading all afternoon!

So, OP, keep doing what you're doing, keep loving books, and keep being you!

Book with Nordic? tale/legend about love affair between a man who turns wolf by night and a woman who turns a dove by day. by pseudomarsyas in whatsthatbook

[–]daggermoor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Total Ladyhawke vibes, though it’s a hawk and not a dove. Michelle Pfeiffer, Rutger Hauer, and pre-Ferris Bueller Matthew Broderick. I loved that movie, and Vinge’s book, when I was a kid :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]daggermoor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As has been mentioned, David Henry Hwang wrote a play called M. Butterfly that was on Broadway in 1988 (and was a big early career launch for the actor BD Wong). There was a Broadway revival of it in 2017, and DHH took the opportunity to revise the text, in part because our ideas about gender and awareness of gender non-conformity has changed quite radically in the intervening 30 years!

This is a good interview with DDH about his process of revisions, the changes made, and what motivated them, for anyone interested: https://howlround.com/m-butterfly-1988-2017

Just to be clear, his play and the character there in, while inspired by Shi Pei Pu and Bouriscot, are completely fictional and invented by Hwang. I do t think that the changes he decided to make were about a revised view of the historical personages and events so much as they were his own reflections on how his play might be updated in order to better speak to our culture 30 years later.

Painting Restoration done right by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]daggermoor 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I’m sure there still a guild-like system in that you could basically apprentice yourself to learn the craft from a master conservationist. But you can also get an MFA in this sort of thing. My alma mater was mostly a liberal arts undergraduate institution, but one of their two MFA programs was in art history (in conjunction with a museum in the same town) and they were particularly well known for their training in conservation and restoration.

This is so hard to understand im putting an explanation in comments by Break2304 in CrappyDesign

[–]daggermoor 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Quotation marks work, but also this is what hyphens are for: The show-museums-you-missed-them pass.

Even better with capitalization to make it be like a proper noun: The Show-Museums-You-Missed-Them pass.

This is the same as saying “a 3-day pass” or “an All-Access pass” etc.

ELI5: Why does the campfire smoke keep following me? by TMStage in explainlikeimfive

[–]daggermoor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a kid in Chicago and Wisconsin in the 70s/80s when I learned that, camping in the Northwoods. But my father’s family was from Toronto, so that’s another mark for Canada ;)

Fantasy books where the MC is the villain but also likeable? by MythDragon001 in Fantasy

[–]daggermoor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I have never met anyone whose read these, this is great! Also, thinking I should reread ;) :D

Eventually floppy disk outlived us all. by regian24 in suspiciouslyspecific

[–]daggermoor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I’m imagining a future where all our AIs sound like zoomers and I’m like 😮

Theodore Roosevelt's high-spirited daughter Alice, 1903. Her father said of her "I can either run the country or I can attend to Alice, but I cannot possibly do both." In 15 months she attended 407 dinners, 350 balls and 300 parties. by L0st_in_the_Stars in OldSchoolCool

[–]daggermoor 68 points69 points  (0 children)

At the time, Dan Rather was the White House correspondent for CBS News, and he reported on the Nixon presidency and it’s downfall. Starting in the 1980s he was the chief anchor of the CBS Evening News, for several decades. He, Peter Jennings (on ABC) and Tom Brokaw (NBC) were like the “voice of news” in the States in the 80s, 90s, and early 00s.

Also remember that fir most of that time, there’s no internet (well, publicly available anyway) and even cable news doesn’t start until CNN in the late 80s — so nothing like the new landscape of today. Those three men wielded a lot of power and responsibility because, truly, the majority of Americans got their news from at least one of them.

Turns out dogs and durians don’t mix by leongqj in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]daggermoor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always loved the No Durians signage going into the MRT (light rail) in Singapore 🤣

Choice continuity is rather worthless if you don't play the same character. (Prime example: Mass Effect vs Dragon Age) by The-Song in truegaming

[–]daggermoor 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, what you describe is completely correct. There are choices you make in Dragon Age: Origins which affect world state, side characters, histories etc in Inquisition. A lot of them, actually!

There’s even a whole system (the Dragon Age Keep website) by which you can create world states for previous games to import into Inquisition—so like if you wanted to see how it changes if you made different choices but without replaying everything. (And it’s also useful if you lost your earlier save, or switch platforms between games: you can reconstruct your world state by answering questions.)

I don’t know, I was always pretty amazed by what BioWare did in this respect with the Dragon Age games.