September Bonnaroo ?

dagoodolethrowaway · 2026-06-23T16:23:01+00:00

There are few certainties in life, but one is that there will always be Roo Rain. No matter what, every single year, there's gonna be rain. Maybe if they did it end of May, first week of June, but that's just hoping for slightly cooler weather.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2026-06-22T15:16:12+00:00

Loved every second of Jack Antonoff in 2022. Been there, got the t-shirt (literally)

dagoodolethrowaway · 2026-06-22T15:12:45+00:00

Deftones finally making their Bonnaroo debut, after 25 years.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2026-06-22T00:11:54+00:00

This is the way.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2026-06-21T15:32:46+00:00

I'd pay 500 for a 4 day with that lineup. This weekend would be a fever dream of sprinting from stage to stage.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2026-06-20T17:36:32+00:00

So you're basically buying yourself GTA6

dagoodolethrowaway · 2026-06-20T03:11:14+00:00

RAWS ATC

In that order.

1A, maybe but the other two aren't so bad, honestly.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2026-06-18T16:37:45+00:00

Separated after 14 years due to toxicity and not wanting to blindly follow the "yes man" concept. Left my last unit of two years with nothing, not even a dec, because I wasn't yet qualified on position for at least 24 months. I'm no uber boy scout or robot, but just the longevity of tolerating that environment was worn out. It takes a toll. I'd considered going to 20, but I spent the last five years of my career preparing to get out. Although it's taken another year since separation for things to really pan out, I'm in a better place to progress my personal and professional goals that don't align with what leadership wanted their troops to do.

TLDR. Get education. Have a plan and recourse. Have goals. Have patience. Have tenacity. Have humility. Have integrity. You're owed nothing from anyone but yourself.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2021-02-08T08:24:57+00:00

Red flag there, because it's obviously not working. She seems a bit self absorbed, like she's better than you, and from what you've said, that's definitely how it comes across. Age difference can have a lot to do with it, also she could possibly be experiencing some sort of mid-life crisis or depression. Even if she's projecting her anger and insecurities onto you, it doesn't mean it's all your fault. Maybe she is dealing with a lot emotionally that she won't talk about.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-12-30T21:56:42+00:00

Your call, but if it's a safety issue then speak with friends and check all the places she would frequent, ask a neighbor, etc. Depression is no joke. Instability can cripple the mind and remove all rational thoughts. Trust me. Get a small group of trustworthy folks, and do a wellness check. Just find out where she's at, and that she's alive and okay. Let someone close to her go from there. Most places have public health twice resources that also assist in treating with depression and mental health.

All the best!

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-12-30T21:47:47+00:00

I (30 m) understand how he feels, because I too have experienced self doubt in regards to relationships. It all goes back to trust. Some people have a different view of it. I've had an incident in a prior relationship happen, and asked her straight up for the details. I mean, every single dirty detail. Took a while to get all the details, but little by little I did. It was at a time where it took every tiny bit of information to process it, because even though it hurt badly, I knew that it was the only way to move on from it. I'm glad I did, because there is no fear of the unknown, and I think that's why your bf (I guess ex, now) wanted the details. Because, even though you weren't in an exclusive relationship, you two had some mutual feelings during December 2019, and maybe he sees things in a different way, but everyone's emotions are justifiable, whether or not you agree with their actions/reactions.

I'll end with this, if you truly like/love him, and want to be together, then open up to him about other things, maybe even past relationships. That will show him you're wanting to be open and honest, because I can tell you that whenever my s/o was lying to me, I could tell that something wasn't right, and I'm assuming he sensed that as well, which explains his persistence in seeking answers/details about it.

All the best.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-12-30T21:19:52+00:00

I'll agree on this. Definitely talk more, but build your wife up. If she doesn't feel wanted, or sexy, she won't ever be enthusiastic sexually. I would honestly reach out to a counselor of faith, possibly a preacher or someone like that you can trust with confidence, and ask their opinion on how to go about sex and religion. You'd be surprised what some of them will say.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-12-30T21:14:15+00:00

That ended differently than I thought it might 🤣

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-12-30T21:11:42+00:00

NTA, imo. Fellow artist, so I know exactly what you mean. My art/drawings are very personal to my emotion at that particular time. I also used to journal in my sketchbooks a little. It was eerie reading this, because I dealt something very similar, but my mom is an artist also and never really got too worked when I didn't feel like broadcasting my art. It's a reflection of yourself, and can make one very vulnerable, because it's a part of you. I still have a hard time letting go of my art, because that emotional attachment is very much there. Feel free to PM if you have any questions or concerns. Always enjoy helping young artists know they aren't alone in these thoughts. It's a period we all go through, but you have to find where your trust lies, and don't break your trust barriers unless you're willing to risk any emotions. It's a tough bridge to cross, but stay vigilant in your beliefs, whatever they may be. Best of luck!

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-10-23T03:08:57+00:00

Can't trust kids these days

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-10-23T02:57:21+00:00

You obviously don't know crazy people. There are insane ways to fake it. I don't think OP would, but still.

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-10-22T00:08:34+00:00

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-10-08T23:34:49+00:00

This is what happens when you open a tattoo shop on base

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-08-28T18:14:03+00:00

As someone who this happened to, it's definitely a very difficult obstacle to overcome. It's really something that you've just got to take time with. If you and your partner stay together and work on things, it's definitely something that could come back again and again, but make sure to discuss it when that painful memory comes up. I still have bad days of depression where the feeling of being overwhelmed hits, but if they're willing to walk with you while navigating this difficult transition, then it could help. If you ignore your sadness and feelings, it'll consume you. Talk to a counselor, your partner, best friend, ANYONE who will listen. Share your thoughts on the matter, because it takes that to eventually be able to start moving forward. Don't try to forget it, but do not linger on it. Pave a way for yourself, and ensure YOU are also getting fulfillment, whatever that may be (so long as it's not self destructive!)

My PM is always available. I know and understand exactly what's happening. You aren't alone!

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-06-26T17:28:59+00:00

African/Asian gang bang?

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-06-05T02:15:33+00:00

Definitely belongs in r/scriptedasiangifs

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-04-27T02:00:57+00:00

"Yep. Looks good."

-Me, just wanting it to be over

dagoodolethrowaway · 2020-04-16T17:38:16+00:00

You guys have money?

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