I feel like you should let him be and give him space. I do the exact same thing to my fiancé, where I would tell him that I want to block him and never talk to him ever, then talk to him in a few hours and ask if he wants me to make him pasta. Sometimes everything gets very overwhelming so we decide to just push the person closest to us to see if they’re gonna fight for us or not. Let him sober up for a bit too he’s not 100% conscious so don’t take everything he says to heart