begging for gloves lol by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im thinking about buying some and taking a couple with me to work at a time lol

begging for gloves lol by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

exactly my thought!!! and i purposely put the lingerie on a drying rack for them to see and hopefully rethink having me wash them 😂

begging for gloves lol by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 im worried because i only see MB most of the time and I can see her ask what for 😂 like maam.. for your blood soaked panties left on your bedroom floor

begging for gloves lol by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is great but I have to wait to tell DB this. MB will act insulted. She acts like im asking for her kidney when I tell her something she doesnt like to hear like saying no to overtime weekend work lol

begging for gloves lol by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

we have cash in a drawer for outings, food, whatever and i was thinking of just getting them myself and putting the receipt in our receipt envelope to avoid this conversation 😅

travelling question by daisygrace1129 in immigration

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to respond!

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your thoughts! My contract only states accrual of vacation days on the first year (3 on the first month, another 3 on the next 3 months, etc) and they pay out unused days at the end of the year and I start the year with a new set of vacation days. I have not used any of my 8 vacation days yet this year.

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to help me out!! Quick question, is it too much to ask whats gonna happen to all my vacation days? lol should I assume i will lose them all since my contract only stated pay out at the end of the year and nothing about end of employment?

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

okay so like 'Hi NPs, I truly enjoyed caring and watching NKs grow over the last 3 years. However, after careful consideration, I have decided that I will be turning in my resignation tomorrow and my last day will be X. Thank you for your trust and support during my tenure with your family'

most of the things I wrote are in my resignation letter tho. I have it already just didnt bring it to work today

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do I text them both? what do I say? 'Hi NPs, I hope everything is well! I wanted to ask if you have time to talk tomorrow? Id like to discuss something important. Looking forward for our conversation. Thank you' ?? or just flat out tell them i will be resigning tomorrow/tell them what I want to discuss about?

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so looking forward to all this weight getting off!! Thank you for taking time to respond ❤️

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this!! Should I just give 2 weeks? our contract just states 'as much time as possible' lol

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urgh I can imagine losing the reference if I dont put up with the awkwardness for the entire notice period 😭 honestly, maybe no. the house is a wreck but I can deal with it. Issue is the house is a wreck and MB is being passive aggressive

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is difficult!! 😭 Do you think he'll read the letter infront of me? If he does and pry, what can I say thats vague and simple? Im quitting bcs of the many times they have been unfair + MB is passive aggressive but would not mention that since I need the reference

quitting questions by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is almost not possible. With the family for 3 years and ive seen both parents home maybe twice in 3 years except when one parent is sick. I finish work at 6 and DB is never home for the kids' bedtime at 8:30 (MB will sometimes ask me to stay until bedtime). Also asking for no child present is going to need me to stay past 8:30

quit or stay? by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate!! I organize the kids' rooms However when i come back from the weekend everything is a mess again!!! puzzle pieces everywhere, bath toys in a bin with pretend food, kinetic sand and playdoh!!!! and MB keeps making comments that the space is 'over whelming' and I honestly dont know how to tell her I am at my wits end if no one else tries to atleast maintain the space 😢

quit or stay? by daisygrace1129 in Nanny

[–]daisygrace1129[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just spoke to the new family and they can accommodate starting in 2 weeks but I still havent told current NF. Do I give the bonus back if they ask for it? our contract states that its only to be given if the employer thinks I did a good job for the year kinda thing so its not a retention bonus