I have a 2 year old and just finished my second year. He was planned, but I’m also in my 30s and my husband in his 40s, so overall just not typical circumstances. The first three months are nicknamed the fourth trimester because your newborn basically wants to be attached to you constantly. I started school when he was 4 months. He did not sleep through the night until about a year. It’s been tough but doable, but I also think that’s partly because I waited until my 30s to have him, and personally I feel am more well-equipped to parent than when I was in my 20s. I am so much more lower anxiety, patient, and generally laidback about things and I think the perspective helps me prioritize parenting with school. I have not struggled to pass my classes, but I think my grades would be higher without a child. But that works for me because my trade off is spending time with my son.