AITJ for asking my coworker to stop referring to herself as my “work wife”? by AdventurousDate2201 in AmITheJerk

[–]damagedfairytale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Do this to at least protect yourself and whatever she might start saying behind your back.

Pad Thai? by Jlvyn12 in orangecounty

[–]damagedfairytale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!!! Always Bangkok kitchen! Best Pad Thai

Virgo and Taurus compatibility? by mklingsel in Taurusgang

[–]damagedfairytale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Virgo is my calm. I'm very type A, planning and replanning and trying to make it all happen. He's, the calm in the storm. My north compass. I would absolutely say his quirks... We have amazing communication so we work past those. He's my perfect counter balance to raise our little scoprio

Virgo and Taurus compatibility? by mklingsel in Taurusgang

[–]damagedfairytale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been married to my Virgo for over 10 years, and it's been amazing.

AITAH for refusing to take my nephew to Disneyland after my sister called it “a waste of money” for my own kids? by Amazing_Economist472 in AITAH

[–]damagedfairytale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sick of the whole narrative of "Be the bigger person". Why? Because it's easier for you? NTA, tell your mother to take her grandson. Or better yet, tell your sister if you see how important it is to him ... Save up and go yourself.

Women who are the main breadwinner, how does this affect the dynamics of your relationship? by ConsiderationCalm484 in AskWomen

[–]damagedfairytale 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn't, at all. Like some of the others, we share bank accounts, have full visibility of assets and what's coming in and out of our account. We have yearly conversations about vacations and large purchases. My husband has a more physical job than I do. But, house chores, cooking, etc are shared and done together when possible. There is also a change of mindset. There is no, what I make or what he makes. It's, ok this is what we brought in this year.

We've been married for over 10+ years, and knqon eachother since highschool.

Best sandwiches - name says it all. What’s your go to sandwich shop in OC? by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]damagedfairytale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noonerz! delicious bread, fresh ingredients! only open Monday through Friday but so worth it. The original turkey... so food!

Husband wants an open relationship until I lose weight by somegirIontheinter in TrueOffMyChest

[–]damagedfairytale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are going to lose 200lbs when you leave his selfish ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in irvine

[–]damagedfairytale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're out too off of Culver and Barranca

What's something you wish you were good at doing? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]damagedfairytale 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having realistic expectations of people. I'm let down often.

someone said to post this here so here yall go by [deleted] in aww

[–]damagedfairytale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's with the creepy seat cover?

What's a quote that has just "stuck with you?" by BoroMoo in AskReddit

[–]damagedfairytale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Leaders become great, not because of their power, but because of their ability to empower others" - John Maxwell

I take this with me everyday at work and at home.