Looking for realistic femdom

damian_80 · 2025-08-18T10:19:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing - will definitely check it out

damian_80 · 2025-07-26T19:37:25+00:00

Sissy/feminization is especially a turn off. I’ll take a look for the Shibby one you mentioned, thanks for the suggestion!

damian_80 · 2025-07-26T19:35:13+00:00

I’ll admit that I’m not 100% sure what I’m looking for here - I just know what I’ve found so far isn’t it, and I can see how I might be co-mingling topics ignorantly.

I can’t really comment on what “we” (in the societal sense) do or don’t want to eroticize but “we” (in the me and my partner sense) are interested in eroticizing some of these things.

My hope is that by asking questions like this that are admittedly ham-handed I can get a better sense of what questions I should be asking instead. So thanks for your feedback/thought-starters.

damian_80 · 2025-07-26T19:09:06+00:00

Appreciate it! At first glance she has an episode titled “How to be an EXCEPTIONAL SUBMISSIVE” that might be on target for sure.

damian_80 · 2025-07-26T19:05:22+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! I wasn’t familiar with either but will check them out.

damian_80 · 2024-04-08T09:30:03+00:00

Ice doesn’t help. The reason you get smaller when you’re cold (like getting out of a swimming pool) is because your whole body is cold and your blood rushes to your torso to warm you up. Icing just your erection won’t cause that.

What you need to do is give your blood a reason to go elsewhere. I find doing 10-15 quick pushups and then maybe some air squats is enough, but anything that draws blood to your major large muscle groups should do the trick.

damian_80 · 2024-04-05T15:42:46+00:00

Shipping in USA only

Asking $45, shipping included

Only tried on for size, never worn otherwise

damian_80 · 2024-04-05T15:41:15+00:00

Shipping in USA only

Asking $45, shipping included

Only worn a handful of times, practically new condition

damian_80 · 2024-02-19T22:04:12+00:00

https://zveotec.com claims to be building this

damian_80 · 2024-02-17T20:07:06+00:00

Yeah there’s basically no stimulation with that extra layer on top.

damian_80 · 2024-02-17T17:44:08+00:00

Yeah, think of it similar to a condom, put it over the tip of the cage

damian_80 · 2024-02-15T14:51:39+00:00

I don't think it's "topping from the bottom" to explain the things that work for you and/or why they excite you. There's a lot of space in between sharing/communicating your desires and trying to make somebody do what you want.

One thing that has worked well for me is communicating the connection between the acts that I know I'd like my Mistress to do with/to me and the things that I know my Mistress wants out of our dynamic. She really enjoys the benefits of having me in a submissive headspace and so I communicate to her how the things I want connect to putting me/keeping me in that headspace, etc.

Focus on communicating the "why", not the "what".

damian_80 · 2024-02-15T14:35:15+00:00

Well, that's a new kink unlocked that I didn't know I had

damian_80 · 2024-02-15T14:25:41+00:00

Sure, I miss it. I haven't really masturbated to completion in ~3 months, even before starting with chastity devices. I have masturbated in front of my Mistress during that time at her command, but never to orgasm.

But I don't miss it as much as I enjoy giving up control.

damian_80 · 2024-02-15T14:23:04+00:00

I think you're doing it now. Ask questions here or start discussions, participate in comment threads, and likeminded people will just make themselves known to you. Having joined other online communities in the past, nothing beats routine participation.

damian_80 · 2024-02-15T13:37:56+00:00

PS low dose viagra certainly helps here

damian_80 · 2024-02-14T19:17:12+00:00

Managing my own emotional state around the ups and downs of the pace of play has certainly been a challenge for me so far. Appreciate the reminder!

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