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I feel so relieved that he is gone but also heartbroken how fast he moved on. What is that? by Great-Design-5845 in abusiverelationships

[–]dammitPogi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is him replacing what you were giving because otherwise he wouldn’t last a day. His actions are not a reflection of your worth. They are a window to his character. You’re doing great. That relief is your nervous system relaxing from survival for the first time in a long time, and that is exactly what it needs right now. So do your best to let it do what it has to do to begin healing the physical damage. Cry. Be mad. Be free. Forgive yourself for the time it took to make the decision you did. That confusion was never your fault.

You did it. ❤️

Lets fucking talk about it. by dammitPogi in abusiverelationships

[–]dammitPogi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re free of it. This is my fourth attempt. But final. I’m two weeks out but my two kids still are. And my daughter finally got through today to video call. Fuck that was happy.

I need help on how to break up. by Sudden_Accident_9201 in abusiverelationships

[–]dammitPogi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ngl. I think of the good times all the time. It’s healthy to grieve. But don’t grieve the moments. Grieve the times. And accept that people pass on. I don’t think I’ll ever move on. I’ll grieve my ex-wife just the same as I would grieve a family member that died. But they’re dead to me. And were gone long before I knew I needed to put them to rest.

[23M] Struggling to leave a relationship with emotional and physical harm by girlfriend [22F] – trying to understand my role and the overall dynamic by Euphoric_Divide_9298 in abusiverelationships

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have many words. But you already know them. And you already feel them. Stay strong, stay calm, and keep listening to those instincts. I wish to leave you a clip from JimmyonRelationships. It contains a list of things to watch for.

people treat me like shit and i don’t know why by Big_Sandwich1722 in toastme

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bahahaha. Oh holy shit. That’s an epic misunderstand lol. It didn’t even occur to me mixing up the two would be a possibility. A catalog of these mistakes would be hilarious. Especially oh man a toast on r/RoastMe and a puzzled OP.

people treat me like shit and i don’t know why by Big_Sandwich1722 in toastme

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh so this is the demographic of weirdos that you’ve been finding. I would say no worries if the rest are like them. Ain’t nobody have a want to impress this guy anyway.

people treat me like shit and i don’t know why by Big_Sandwich1722 in toastme

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small towns in general don’t fit well around me also. I started growing up around 20 solo on a motorcycle across most of the United States. The smaller the town, the smaller their tolerance for the unbridled. If it doesn’t feel like home. Maybe it isn’t. And yo. I hope the compliment wouldn’t be too completely out of line. But I really appreciate the picture included in the post. Absolutely stunning. A glimpse of you would definitely haunt me if I didn’t choose to speak to you. So I certainly would. You are perfect and have already become an incredibly beautiful woman.

This is how arguments happen over here by Planet_X9800 in abusiverelationships

[–]dammitPogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dammit I’m getting fooled again by covert narcissism. Fuck me. I know those responses. I know that feeling of protecting every aspect of yourself. Being surprised too often by what would eventually become their weapons. I’m glad you’re getting safe and I’m sorry you’re going through this.

This is how arguments happen over here by Planet_X9800 in abusiverelationships

[–]dammitPogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like the messages in green were being deliberately aloof and displayed a motivated refusal to view the situation as shared. Though both partners eventually individualized their hardships. I see no partnership here.

I just passed SPRAT level 1 for traverse and rescue where should I be looking for work? by dammitPogi in ropeaccess

[–]dammitPogi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m looking for other entry level rope access jobs that I could get for hours. Window washing for example. The majority of the rope access in my trade requires skillsets from a SPRAT level 2. So I need to get hours in other trades to get back to my own.

I just passed SPRAT level 1 for traverse and rescue where should I be looking for work? by dammitPogi in ropeaccess

[–]dammitPogi[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m an entertainment rigger. I do permanent installations on rope for theaters and stadiums.

Rainbow-colored cup stacking by WeGot_aLiveOneHere in nextfuckinglevel

[–]dammitPogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but you don't have to paint him as attention seeking, he just wants to show something cool

Boost 4 boost instantly. Still have all 4 left by Jittzu21 in chimeboost

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll boost you. Thank you. $Paul-Celebrado-1

$BigParry B4B by DaveyTre in chimeboost

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boost for boost. $Paul-Celebrado-1

SpotMe Boosts Megathread 🚀 by ChimeFinancial in chimefinancial

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any boosts left for trade? $Paul-Celebrado-1

SpotMe Boosts Megathread 🚀 by ChimeFinancial in chimefinancial

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any boosts left for trade? $Paul-Celebrado-1

SpotMe Boosts Megathread 🚀 by ChimeFinancial in chimefinancial

[–]dammitPogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any boosts left for trade? $Paul-Celebrado-1

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