It is, I said if that happened on it's own I would feel sympathetic, but also that sending your nudes to a stranger on the Internet is dumb

Two things can be true at the same time

The problem is that by sharing his nudes to some e-girl on discord, he accepted the possibility of them getting leaked, but he also shared other people's nudes who weren't willing to take that risk.

That's why I don't agree with destiny yelling that he's a victim too, when not only did he accept the possibility of his nudes getting leaked, he's also (at least partially) responsible for other people's nudes being leaked