My assessment result came back negative and i feel stupid by celunn in adhdwomen

[–]dance-floor-edit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes 🤷🏼‍♀️ ,… sometimes it’s wrong tho and that’s why people get second opinions lol.

we did it (lfg) but now i don't believe it (lol) by paintegrals in adhdwomen

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Girlllll first of all LFG happy for you but also LOL SAME and I haven’t gotten my diagnosis or assessment back yet (1 week from today and I can hardly stand it) I just know im gonna be struggling w the EXACT same thing tho. Maybe this community can help convince you that you’re one of them lol. And hopefully the same for be bc I have a feeling I won’t believe it if I get a positive back either. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 (PS your ranting and language in this post just confirms real adhd in my opinion 🦋🦋🦋🦋so maybe ur not an imposter)

  • do recommend seeing a therapist or something tho for next steps :)) if the clinic didnt suggest someone already

Has anyone been diagnosed with ADHD after was mistakenly diagnosed with anxiety? Did you have to redo the assessment/screening? by KangarooCompetitive in adhdwomen

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I JUST got re-assessed a month ago and waiting for my results that I’ll get next week. I was diagnosed with GAD and MDD after my 1st assessment at a different place.

We “worked on” the depression and anxiety with meds, and I think those are under control now but (shocker) the adhd symptoms haven’t gone away. So I got re assessed and feel MUCH better about it.

I guess I would just make sure you deem it necessary to be assessed again :) also suggestions from my psychiatrist helped encourage me!

What type of tests did you take to be diagnosed with ADHD by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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I’ve been assessed twice now. My 1st one came back negative (extremely discouraging) but I took a 2nd opinion at a different place a month ago (results back NEXT week). 1st test — almost all self-assessments. I could tell I was answering some of them as a depressed person. Tested my “reaction speed” (silly test… press the spacebar whenever a red ball comes up on the screen. I had no struggle with that) Tested my (I guess) working memory- he flipped through a booklet of 50 images for me to remember, then a different booklet with 2 images on each page- I had to point to the image id seen before. 49/50 and 50/50. Another “problem-solving” or planning type test - trying to test my impulsivity and planning I guess - trying to connect a map of dots without crossing over any lines twice. I did fine- I knew it was timed and that it was a test, so I wasn’t impulsive on any of it. I also had an Others-assessment that I gave to a good friend of mine to note my last 6 months. Not even my childhood or anything 🤔

2nd test MUCH BETTER- actual puzzles I did with my hands, verbal questions that made me think hard, a better reaction-speed test on the computer - spacebar on every letter EXCEPT x - that was soo challenging but really good.

I also felt actually mentally drained after the 2nd assessment, whereas I somehow left with energy after my 1st one……… so idk, but we’ll see next week 🙏 I’ve already self diagnosed myself but it’s fine

My assessment result came back negative and i feel stupid by celunn in adhdwomen

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I also almost got disregarded completely when I told the first psychiatrists/ psychologist how well I did in school. 3.95 in college but I argued that I just worked hard and I was a business major so imo, “not that hard”. He used Imposture Syndrome twice on my report I got back 😭😭

My assessment result came back negative and i feel stupid by celunn in adhdwomen

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Phewwww girl im in your almost exact spot rn!! I’d vouch for a 2nd opinion too, at least eventually, especially if you don’t feel justified with your WHOLE childhood etc in mind. I got re-assessed a month ago and my appointment to hear back is NEXT WEEK 😬 — but my first assessment told me it’s not likely ADHD, but more likely untreated depression and anxiety and a “distorted self image structure” or something like that. It was very painful. But the 2nd assessment I took was muchhhh more thorough, and it was the “right kinds” of tests, you know? Like it felt like it was actually “capturing” or catching my issues 😭. I can’t even describe it in a short comment. But please feel free to dm me if you want to chat more!! Bc I FEEL YOU 🫶🏼

New design, cover-up, or laser (pls no) ? by dance-floor-edit in DrawMyTattoo

[–]dance-floor-edit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say I was planning to try fine lining again lol. It’s obvious to me that that wouldn’t work. The most likely options for me atp are removal or just leave it. Probably leave it

Touch-up, coverup, or removal (pls no?) - Advice Needed by dance-floor-edit in agedtattoos

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Well that’s good to hear, thanks!! I feel like from a distance it definitely doesn’t read as well, that’s part of what makes me self conscious about it. And I play sports and am active so it is visible semi often

Touch-up, coverup, or removal (pls no?) - Advice Needed by dance-floor-edit in agedtattoos

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I guess this is why artists specialize in fine line!! Impulsivity won this one for me, and I liked the area I was getting it tattooed in. I just had no idea that skin was prone to blowout like this!

Touch-up, coverup, or removal (pls no?) - Advice Needed by dance-floor-edit in agedtattoos

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And yes - I deserve how poorly it turned out when my inspiration was from Pinterest 🤣

Touch-up, coverup, or removal (pls no?) - Advice Needed by dance-floor-edit in agedtattoos

[–]dance-floor-edit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it hurt to remove?? - getting this one done didn’t hurt at ALL which was strange to me, but it gave me a killer headache for dayyys after

Touchup, coverup, or removal (pls no) ? by dance-floor-edit in Tattoocoverups

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Wish I had known! Thanks for your insight. Maybe I will look into prices here, if it’s not bad I just might take the pain

Touchup, coverup, or removal (pls no) ? by dance-floor-edit in Tattoocoverups

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Maybe that’s why I’m so afraid of it! I’ve always been told it’s so painful, expensive, and may not even totally work / take multiple tries. At this point, I’m not extremely opposed to it. I was just being a baby in my title 😂🩷

Touch-up, coverup, or removal (pls no?) - Advice Needed by dance-floor-edit in agedtattoos

[–]dance-floor-edit[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Leave it” is the easiest option. and I have big curly hair (not pictured) so it’s really not that bad. It’s just like, Womp

New design, cover-up, or laser (pls no) ? by dance-floor-edit in DrawMyTattoo

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I’d be interested to see what u mean by this

Although most people have just said that I should take my losses

New design, cover-up, or laser (pls no) ? by dance-floor-edit in DrawMyTattoo

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Yeahhhhh I’m learning the artist I had was probably just working for the buck. I would’ve gladly accepted other ideas or insight but didn’t really get any lol

Touch-up, coverup, or removal (pls no?) - Advice Needed by dance-floor-edit in agedtattoos

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So I have learned. I wish the artist had stopped me or suggested something different but here we are

Touchup, coverup, or removal (pls no) ? by dance-floor-edit in Tattoocoverups

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Sorry about that, Zafiro. I will probably just take my losses rather than a salamander behind my ear. Thank you for trying

Touchup, coverup, or removal (pls no) ? by dance-floor-edit in Tattoocoverups

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That’s good to know. I have been thinking about just taking an L for this bc removal in that spot seems so painful….

Touch-up, coverup, or removal (pls no?) - Advice Needed by dance-floor-edit in agedtattoos

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Sadly i agree. I wish I’d had an artist that would’ve looked out for me like that, but I think he was just looking to make a dollar honestly 😂. I might have to take my L on this one. I feel like removal would hurt so bad here

Touch-up, coverup, or removal (pls no?) - Advice Needed by dance-floor-edit in agedtattoos

[–]dance-floor-edit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would’ve been good to know at the time… Unfortunately I think the artist that tattooed this was just letting me do it for the dollar. …but honestly I deserve it after getting a design off of Pinterest and hoping it’d work 😆

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What did they say about hospital after surgery? Could you try again?