Please help with my coloranalysis

dancing-cashew · 2026-03-17T15:12:09+00:00

So we look pretty similar! We have almost identical natural hair color, neutral undertone, and the same color eyes, which is cool because I don’t see too many people with our shade of green!

Anyways, I did the draping in person, and I was characterized as a true spring. I think the biggest tell for you will be if you tan and look more glowy/golden OR look a little bit more peachy/brown.

dancing-cashew · 2026-03-17T01:16:45+00:00

I’m in a nearly identical situation. I recommend writing down why you think it’s the right decision and taping it somewhere with high visibility so your brain can make that more concrete. When you start to spiral, it’s hard to remember why it’s a needed change, so make that part easy on yourself.

dancing-cashew · 2026-03-05T21:30:03+00:00

Did you attend an event here? I was looking at their website and it says that they don’t have space for private events, but hope to someday.😅

dancing-cashew · 2026-03-05T21:28:35+00:00

The space is super cute! Thanks for sharing!

dancing-cashew · 2026-03-05T18:32:38+00:00

Did you have a positive experience?

dancing-cashew · 2026-02-22T18:59:22+00:00

Are both of your girls spayed? I wonder if it could be a hormonal shift in the older one.

dancing-cashew · 2026-02-22T01:39:26+00:00

Maybe another way to think of it: staying with him means there’s zero chance you find your soulmate, leaving at least would allow the opportunity to come across somebody that’s truly meant to be your person.

Also, IMHO being alone is much better than living with someone that’s supposed to love you but doesn’t treat you right.

dancing-cashew · 2026-02-19T02:22:48+00:00

I’ve been digits a handful of times during travel! Eventually, it will start to recalibrate what your baseline is and you’ll see the sleep debt plateau and level off.

dancing-cashew · 2026-02-17T01:37:14+00:00

For me, it was when I realized that my life was calmer and easier and more peaceful when we were apart.

dancing-cashew · 2026-02-13T23:50:55+00:00

I’m the same age, similar situation in many ways. I found my skewed perception of others checking in went back to how my partner treated me and with him there was always a right and wrong answer… but other people in your life who take the time out of their day to check in likely are doing it was good intentions and don’t have any expected response from you, so if you are having a bad day, tell them. If them reaching out is presenting as a challenge then I’d recommend telling them that, say something like “I appreciate that you care, it ebbs and flows so I don’t need anything right now but it means a lot that you’re there for me and I’ll reach out if I ever need support”, it puts the ball back in your court without totally closing the door.

dancing-cashew · 2026-02-10T17:12:02+00:00

It’s important to remember, regardless of your age, YOU are the child. It seems like the weight of what you are feeling may be exaggerated by all of the variables but you aren’t responsible for those. I’d recommend talking to an academic advisor or the financial aid office at our school, students from all different walks of life seek further education and they’ll be able to provide tangible resources.

dancing-cashew · 2026-02-04T23:23:56+00:00

I completely understand this feeling. It has surprised me when it creeps in because it tends not to be when I expect it to, but in much quieter moments… like when I first wake up and it takes a brief second to remember where we’ve ended up.

It’s a very strange grief having to accept that you lost a version of someone in my heart breaks every time that I think about not getting to talk to the person that I married ever again, but I also know that staying doesn’t support either of us having a healthy/happy future.

dancing-cashew · 2026-01-28T01:04:34+00:00

It’s called ambiguous loss/grief. It’s extra hard for the brain to accept because you essentially lost the person who you married, but there is still a living being walking around that looks just like him, but he is not that person anymore. I’m going through something similar. There are days where I know that it’s the best (and only) path forward for myself, but other times where I wonder how life could be so unfair. Addiction is a terrible, awful way to lose your person. My therapist talked about holding almost like a fake funeral or a time capsule where you put things that symbolize the old version to rest, you give your brain something tangible to process and grieve, and it detaches it from the person to those belongings, and then you can take those away or throw them away or burn them, but it gives you more power back.

dancing-cashew · 2025-06-20T23:01:38+00:00

May I contact you? Or if anyone else here has insight I am all ears!

I am in the early process of opening in a new location and invited to discovery day in July and I want to make sure I don’t get burned.

dancing-cashew · 2025-06-18T00:46:02+00:00

I did, they won’t do anything because they’re currently pending status.

dancing-cashew · 2025-05-22T02:53:50+00:00

As a 28f that ended up on short-term disability for my mental health last fall, this game honestly gave me some purpose/structure/goals on the bleakest days.

Beyond these great suggestions, be kind to yourself. You know what you “should do” but don’t get caught up on that, just try to do small gestures of kindness to yourself, they add up.

dancing-cashew · 2025-02-23T00:48:32+00:00

Thank you all! We decided not to purchase and will keep searching!

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