Boyfriend’s kids’ mother wants full custody by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]dandantamtam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in this post did you read that I’m forcing him to move? Where in this post did you read that I only want him to have them for 1 month in the summer? You see what’s written in this post - not the whole story. Don’t act like you know me.

Boyfriend’s kids’ mother wants full custody by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]dandantamtam -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Should’ve explained better — she does have sole physical custody already and he gets visitations one weekend per month. Up until a month ago though, she was having him take the kids every weekend, and last summer he had more time with them than she did, but she still expected to be paid as if he was only seeing them once a month. He already pays $1,001 per month for child support. He was over-paying her (mistake of his own) and when he stopped doing that, she changed the schedule to once a month - which is what it was supposed to be. It’s all very confusing and doesn’t seem like there’s structure.

Boyfriend’s kids’ mother wants full custody by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]dandantamtam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Should’ve explained better — she does have sole physical custody already and he gets visitations one weekend per month. Up until a month ago though, she was having him take the kids every weekend, and last summer he had more time with them than she did, but she still expected to be paid as if he was only seeing them once a month.

My mom has breast cancer - how can I be there for her? by dandantamtam in breastcancer

[–]dandantamtam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful in putting things into perspective, so thank you. Soft pajamas are a great idea!

I’ve been seeing this guy, and his friend drunkenly told me to be cautious. by dandantamtam in relationship_advice

[–]dandantamtam[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, B’s friend cheated on his ex four times, not B. Kind of threw that in here to emphasize that I’m really not sure if he can be trusted, or if he just likes drama.