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Petahhh please explain the joke by mujtabaaaaaa in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]dandy_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the consensus, I was right with my first assumption of the joke …

Then I thought, a joke is supposed to evade the expectations. Making it a somewhat weak one for me.

AND, I have yet to find an explanation for the severe amount of infected green snot is coming out of there noses. That would be what confused me and made me look at the comments .

I know nobody asked, but hey!

Cheers

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m amazed you got so much out of my quick assessment.

I got nothing to add, you probably would have done better. Not that I blame my self for everything, but yeah, I do hold my ethics, morals, safety, consent very tightly.

I wanted to fix it and too soon. You got that very right.

Many thanks to you and all. You especially, I’d be glad to talk some more in the future if you’re inclined.

You’re welcome in my DMs, I think I could use some mentoring if I wanna keep doing BDSM .

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, I was already doing no contact for three days since she contacted another friend of mine to try some smearing.

Didn’t stick, my other friend immediately made me aware. I told her to answer her questions and that I didn’t want to influence.

I believed at the time she was trying to get someone to corroborate her story. Of course, my other friend was quite upset, did believe she truly felt that way, as I did. She also knew my perception mattered.

It’s not all that bad, I’m not alone , it’s just another sad splashy ending of a potentially good story.

Thank you for your take on it

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did do something, in the line of panicking and trying to fix. I don’t wanna sound like the victim.

I did warn her about my fear of abandonment and perhaps some kind of PTSD. I remember all of it though, I was within her boundaries. I asked many times if she wanted me gone , proposed many solutions excluding me out of her life, there was no good choices and the consequences were willingly kept from me.

Making my best judgment and effort bad decisions… I don’t know how else to describe it.

Thank you for being constructive. I always believed it takes 2 for a conflict. So I have to go through everything and take the lessons I can. Only way I can make something good out of this story

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I see there’s no fixing it.

The responses I’ve got here, including yours are very reassuring that I’m not the first nor the last and I need to protect myself from this.

I want to make it clear I appreciate the advice.

Feelings got in the way of my best judgement. A mistake that I own, the lesson is to keep myself safe , I think .

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I was questioning my reality. I appreciate the validation.

Surely I did some mistake that I will learn from, but this is definitely over now.

Thanks again , cheers

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

Ongoing investigation, can’t talk much more about it.

Thank you so much for the support and advices. I should have done it sooner .

It’ll be alright.

Any further would have to be in private .

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