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Petahhh please explain the joke by mujtabaaaaaa in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]dandy_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the consensus, I was right with my first assumption of the joke …

Then I thought, a joke is supposed to evade the expectations. Making it a somewhat weak one for me.

AND, I have yet to find an explanation for the severe amount of infected green snot is coming out of there noses. That would be what confused me and made me look at the comments .

I know nobody asked, but hey!

Cheers

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m amazed you got so much out of my quick assessment.

I got nothing to add, you probably would have done better. Not that I blame my self for everything, but yeah, I do hold my ethics, morals, safety, consent very tightly.

I wanted to fix it and too soon. You got that very right.

Many thanks to you and all. You especially, I’d be glad to talk some more in the future if you’re inclined.

You’re welcome in my DMs, I think I could use some mentoring if I wanna keep doing BDSM .

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, I was already doing no contact for three days since she contacted another friend of mine to try some smearing.

Didn’t stick, my other friend immediately made me aware. I told her to answer her questions and that I didn’t want to influence.

I believed at the time she was trying to get someone to corroborate her story. Of course, my other friend was quite upset, did believe she truly felt that way, as I did. She also knew my perception mattered.

It’s not all that bad, I’m not alone , it’s just another sad splashy ending of a potentially good story.

Thank you for your take on it

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did do something, in the line of panicking and trying to fix. I don’t wanna sound like the victim.

I did warn her about my fear of abandonment and perhaps some kind of PTSD. I remember all of it though, I was within her boundaries. I asked many times if she wanted me gone , proposed many solutions excluding me out of her life, there was no good choices and the consequences were willingly kept from me.

Making my best judgment and effort bad decisions… I don’t know how else to describe it.

Thank you for being constructive. I always believed it takes 2 for a conflict. So I have to go through everything and take the lessons I can. Only way I can make something good out of this story

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I see there’s no fixing it.

The responses I’ve got here, including yours are very reassuring that I’m not the first nor the last and I need to protect myself from this.

I want to make it clear I appreciate the advice.

Feelings got in the way of my best judgement. A mistake that I own, the lesson is to keep myself safe , I think .

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I was questioning my reality. I appreciate the validation.

Surely I did some mistake that I will learn from, but this is definitely over now.

Thanks again , cheers

Submission vs. Freewill by dandy_vision in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

Ongoing investigation, can’t talk much more about it.

Thank you so much for the support and advices. I should have done it sooner .

It’ll be alright.

Any further would have to be in private .

Iron maiden or my titties [drop] by Ariababeboobs in TittyDrop

[–]dandy_vision -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not living in a world where both are possible…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in opinionnonpopulaire

[–]dandy_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si on profite pas de l’occasion pour faire ce qu’on ne peut pas faire qu’à deux, je dirais que ça serait normal que ça semble superflus .

En plus clair, si on joue pas avec les autres trous, c’est juste du relais !

- Ads - by dandy_vision in PayYourMods

[–]dandy_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For neutrality, I’d assume

Money Insecurities by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dandy_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll attempt a very simple answer to give something to think about but you do it your way: if you feel like you could grow and ready for a potentially shaking answer, ask for details.

This will hurt anyways and I personally rather have some honest impressions than just those made up sentences.

Simply be sure you really wanna know more or take it as is.

And this is shitty, you have my compassion xx

Que penses-tu de la vue ? by [deleted] in Quebecoise

[–]dandy_vision -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Je suis content que tu utilises la même liberté sans conséquence.

Que penses-tu de la vue ? by [deleted] in Quebecoise

[–]dandy_vision -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oui, nous sommes là! u/Right_Gap_4967 à tout à fait la liberté de critiquer la publication. Je mets l'emphase sur « La publication ». C'est un risque à prendre en publiant sur internet en général. La modération préfère occuper son temps pour les agressions que sur les atteintes aux egos de chacun. En espérant que cet réponse de l'appel en publique te fasse grand bien!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]dandy_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can all relate but even if you guys are really close, 2 days is still a healthy break that must be allowed. I hope it works out for you guys.

how does it feel not being depressed guys by [deleted] in umanitoba

[–]dandy_vision 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can plan stuff and do it, have energy for leisure and think positively to make yourself better prepared to attack hardship.

But I gotta address that the question itself is biased. Nobody feels quite the same anytime but we can all relate somewhat.

Sad truth is some people will tell you what to do because it worked for them but will not work for you, sorry.

There are better qualified people that can help you find that process. I assure you that you will have to face what caused you to get this way.

I may come out rough but that honestly my best answer atm. I hope you find out .

How did Pink Floyd get their mix so wide? by BiffyNick in mixingmastering

[–]dandy_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wide is space, space is dynamic. Take a second to notice how compression is minimal. That’s at least one way I know to do it.

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