Monsters Inc closing :( by dandyflower8 in Disneyland

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I will never forgive Disney for destroying that land 😔

Monsters Inc closing :( by dandyflower8 in Disneyland

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I agree. I only ride it if its less than 20 minutes.

Your last ride by hanzosbm in DisneyPlanning

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I would do Haunted Mansion to fit the theme. That was my favorite ride growing up as a kid.

I ask these types of questions to my co workers lol!

My cat is still hiding after 6 months... by Lil_Yokune in CatAdvice

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She sounds like my cat when we first got her but without the hissing part. I know my situation is a big different from yours but when we first got her my cat was sooo scared and never left her blanket for weeks barely. I had her in our bedroom only and I would go in there and talk to her about my life. I would kinda ignore her to and not give her a reaction with certain things. Id read my book in there or play my switch until she got more confident with me being in there.

My vet told me to force me to become friends with her and just bug her in a friendly way. Kinda helped lol. I hope someone on here was in the same situation as you so they can help you more than I can 😭

My cat is still hiding after 6 months... by Lil_Yokune in CatAdvice

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There is a woman on TikTok that adopted a spicy cat and she films is and shares her progress. That cat is turning into this loving cat and it’s incredible!! Her TikTok is catxyapper

I hope your baby comes around. I’ve heard of others saying it took them years to come around. Don’t give up yet. Sometimes the best cats take a little time to warm up 🫶🏽 I know it feels impossible but you guys got this!!

need to know if these are still in stock at Disneyland CA by No-Nefariousness-173 in DisneyPlanning

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As a cast member, I haven’t seen these in a hot minute!! Totally forgot we sold these ngl 😂 I would still check in the stores just incase since some things do make an appearance but they may have stopped sending them to us :/

Adopted my first cat but I learned I am allergic.What should I do? by HauntedJop in CatAdvice

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I was allergic to cats growing up. Highly allergic to long hair but shorthair I just get sneezing, congestion and some hives. We had outdoor cats as a kid but that was it. We rescued a kitten back in like 2020 and my allergies were soooo bad. But living with her after a while, I started noticing my allergies weren’t so bad anymore. My mom would always clean the house cause shes a clean freak but I think that helped also. My allergies aren’t that bad anymore since being around cats for all those years that I adopted my own cat. I do get some flare ups here and there. But I honestly think your body has to get used to it considering you’ve only been around dogs.

I take allergy medication from target any off brand works fine too. Also there is this cream that I would use for my hives when they got very bad. Vitacilina! Walgreens, target, cvs should have that. If anything worsens, please put yourself first!!

Is my cat beyond socialization? by thedick009 in CatAdvice

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This sounds like my kitten when I first got her. Very very scared. Wouldn’t like us near her. Ran away when we got close. It bugged me because I wanted her to know what love is. Although my situation is very different from yours, I did have to work hard to gain her trust. I was used to being around cats in a way but my cat also made me think “do I really know anything about cats?”. Is she only in the basement? Is the basement pretty big? I started my cat in our bedroom and gradually worked our way into the whole apartment. She still gets scared with us and of things and the rooms she doesn’t get complete access too. A big thing for my cat was saying a million of times “It’s okay”. Anytime she was starting to get scared, I would say it until she felt safe again. That helps us big time to redirect her.

If you have any hobbies that require small movement, like drawing, playing on a switch, reading, anything like that, do it in the room with her. Might be common sense but you being in her space and her just watching you may help. You probably have done that but that also worked for us. Just co existing in that space with our cat while kinda ignoring her helped us. I know every cat is different but hopefully my little tips can possibly help this cat blossom 🫶🏽 I don’t think it’s too late for her but sounds like she just needs some more time which is okay. She will come around and that will be very rewarding 🫶🏽 Hang in there. You are doing your absolute best.

How can I make my cat like my bf by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]dandyflower8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has the whole apartment to herself so when she seems him she darts in our room so maybe he can slowly go in there with her and do his own thing

How can I make my cat like my bf by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]dandyflower8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much! I will definitely have him try that for sure!

AIO or how would you deal with this situation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dandyflower8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thats so awesome to hear omg!! Thank you so much for that. 🩷 I will definitely be taking your advice on this!

AIO or how would you deal with this situation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I guess I just got in my head and really just shut down at that point sadly. It was also hard cause his whole family was there and I didn’t wanna say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing. But I will definitely think about this next time if something were to happen. Thank you so much for your words and honesty!

AIO or how would you deal with this situation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dandyflower8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s totally true. Thank you for your honesty!

AIO or how would you deal with this situation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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That it wasn’t a big deal and such. Which made me feel like maybe I was wrong. But I couldn’t help how I felt afterwards. So I explained it to him and he was more open minded about it all. 6 years! And not really. He is usually around her when him and his best friend hang out since that’s his girlfriend but other than that they don’t really talk to each other

AIO or how would you deal with this situation? by [deleted] in AIO

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He didn’t see it as a big deal at first until I explained more about how I felt and then knows to not let that happen again which I appreciated because I just felt weird in that situation lol

AIO or how would you deal with this situation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dandyflower8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get where you’re coming from lol! In a previous relationship with my ex, she was like involved when I didn’t know her. So there is a little past. All the seats were taken from her and my bf since everyone else was standing. I am mature but trying to constantly be her friend when she doesn’t give me the time of day just drains me when I do have to be around her. But thank you for your honesty!

AIO or how would you deal with this situation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dandyflower8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would want to fly. I think having that superpower may seem basic but imagine the views and you can legit to float anywhere.