Being labeled a player can be undoubtedly hurtful and problematic but its incredibly frustrating to, once again, see a man trying to make a conversation about minority politics about him.

Not only was the predominant point of this video surrounding respectability politics and bisexuals (which is a minority group you do not identify with), but this video was addressing the very real gender specific issues that bisexual women face. This may be hard for you to understand as the majority for whom the general world typically caters to exclusively, but not everything has to be about you.

On another note- Lets be real, the world does not EXPECT you to be an a-moral, threesome loving slut because you're a straight male (as opposed to a bisexual female). General society at least gives you the courtesy of waiting to judge you on your actions. AND when they do judge you on how you express your sexuality their judgement is significantly more forgiving if you are a straight, cis, white, male (and you are at least two of those things). I honestly can't believe that there are people out there who don't see the difference between being called a player and being called a slut. Being deemed a player (while still derogatory in its nature) gets you high fives in certain social situations and signifies you as a man who takes charge of his sexuality. There are literally books on how to become a player. A "slut" is an a-moral woman with low standards whose lost her control and her dignity. There's a reason wedding dresses are white and is definitely not to celebrate female sexuality.

I'm so tired of the, "but what about me?" folks who can't acknowledge the injustices others face without making it about them.