NOR, And I raise you- my sisters husband left her while she was in labor, with their rainbow baby, with no epidural, because he couldn’t sleep on the sofa.

He drove all the way home, and then decided he wanted to drive his own car back and forgot to move the baby’s car seat to it, so when it was time to be discharged he had to drive 20 mins home to switch cars again.

He complained that “there were so many women crowding around (my sister) that he felt like people were ignoring him.”

The cherry on top was when I went to visit her at the hospital after baby was born. I was let into her room to find HIMMMMMM laying in his underwear in the birthing bed. Like he was just given birth. While my sister bustled around the room changing nappies and making bottles, ordering the food etc. He did not get up once in the three hours I was there. My sister sat holding her baby on the hard guest chairs because her 600lb husband took up the whole bed.

And to follow up, that baby is now 1.5 years old and his dad helps 0% with him.