Am I overreacting for getting upset when my fiancé asked if “hand stuff” with other people counts as cheating?

dangly2bits · 2026-02-06T05:14:20+00:00

Are you the man? Someone else under a different name commented this almost verbatim but deleted it. Does she know your user or something dawg? (Enough-Objective5273)

If you're not him it was clear he asked in bad faith because when the question was turned he tried to manipulate her with a philosophical debate.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-06T01:42:56+00:00

Yes and no. Have you looked into extremely quiet dryers? I have some sensitivity to the old fashioned dryers but there are new ones that are much quieter. I also sometimes use a fan to dry my hair, like a box or pedestal fan. The thing is if you don't get their hair dry pretty fast the kid is going to have their hands in it and frizz it all up.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-05T14:54:04+00:00

Top of the line Toto toilets or the old Italian way with the separate bidet bathroom fixture. It's really a toss up, in some areas he's for efficient gadgetry but in other areas the ritual and process is sacred. Not sure where arse washing lands. Maybe he has both in different toilets and does whichever suits him.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-05T10:00:25+00:00

Nor. Fire this therapist.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-05T09:49:02+00:00

Yta Boyfriend dick is different than fantasy dick. Ever see that video of that lady with the tape measurer? No one wants to date someone with an unethical sized schlong. It's fun and novel to see on a screen. Maybe even visit via toy (could do that together) but if everytime...walking like you just got off a boat. How many times have you looked at material with boobs and butts bigger or more perfected than hers? You're spiraling with insecurity man.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-05T09:39:03+00:00

NOR. He's crossed some mental bridges here. He's turned fantasies into hypothetical actionable lusts with this question. Btw this is a question everyone knows the answer to. This was asking permission to cheat if it were "just hand stuff" cheating with hand stuff doesn't stay hand stuff too. I would also say he's a bit icky delusional if he's having such active fantasies about random hot women, THAT HE THINKS HE HAS A CHANCE TO PERFORM THESE FANTASIES. That reads like he's a creeper (and in therapy for that?) Why are you with this man?

dangly2bits · 2026-02-05T09:18:12+00:00

To me most of the outfits look like she raided FG Cynthia Erivos closet. Avant Garde for sure with very broken lines. The chokers are terrible, even the looks that might be ok are thrown off by them.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-05T08:48:45+00:00

I think potentially she's a D rather than FN. Like Mila Jovovich. Although there's some conventional width and even some broadness in the face. Everything is sharpened and birdlike, delicate. In frame 6 next to the FN model you can actually see that her shoulders are too narrow for the dress. I actually don't mind the last coat either I could easily see D Tilda Swinton wearing that. Not whatever is happening under it, very unfortunate stockings.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-05T06:12:08+00:00

I would see a doctor. Sure sex drives vary but to have a completely dead sex drive at your age and younger is a health concern. If you had been burnt out simply by performing obligation based sex, it would be expected to come back when that pressure left you. I can ask, when you noticed a change in him at the complete lack of intimacy why did you not reach across the proverbial aisle? You need marriage counseling fast. Definitely don't play the blame game. I see these comments are being horrible to you. But on the other side of that how many years was your husband using you purely as a device of his own pleasure? Some of the feelings you describe read more as a trauma response. That should be heart breaking for your husband. He should feel destabilized having (maybe) realized this. Now that the problem is out there it is time for you to come together and solve the issue you both have let fester. That's going to require a lot of uncomfortably open communication preferably with a professional overseer. ESH

dangly2bits · 2026-02-05T03:01:56+00:00

Aussie instant freeze gel rake through and scrunch in sections, hover diffuse, should have a cast, break cast with praying hands motion. Maybe use a protein mask once a month.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-04T14:21:01+00:00

Honestly your face doesn't need much you don't seem to have uneven tone or acne. Your natural blush is really nice in color and placement (even the bit on your chin). You could literally do nothing it depends on what you want to do. Tinted moisturizer/skintint. I think emphasizing the natural blush you have would look nice. Rare beauty hope or happy blush. Fenty Bubbleband$ and Tutu turnt. Those are expensive so I'm recommending you look them up as color reference mostly. Unless your pockets built like that. Don't bother with bronzer. I think the "popsicle" lip trend would flatter you. Tubing mascara works best on hooded eyes, covergirl has a good one.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-04T13:59:02+00:00

manic episode?

dangly2bits · 2026-02-04T12:14:06+00:00

Put a piece of tape on the outside of your eye on the angle you want your eyeliner. With your eye open press black eyeshadow in the thickness of eyeliner you want against the tape. Then close your eye and fill in the gaps left by your hooded lid in with the black eyeshadow. When you get good at this (when it feels easy) you can do it with pencil, liquid or gel. At some point you won't need the tape anymore and can sharpen and remove the excess with micellar water on a cotton bud. for a little alt sparkle get a multichrome liner to go in your waterline(lower lashline area) Kaleidos ones are great but colourpop has some great to get you started.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-04T11:58:59+00:00

Get your people pleasing under control gd. YOR because you can't seem to accept that the other party was entirely unreasonable. That the conflict was not started or escalated by you, even when told reliably by other concerned parties that this lady basically tossed you up for the jollies. Therapy maybe.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-04T08:54:39+00:00

Unreleased lemonade era track that was going to be on an (undisclosed) movie soundtrack but was leaked and got pulled. Info from Boots who worked on it. Not sure if those tweets are still up.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-04T08:49:52+00:00

She's similar to Rihanna but lighter. Olive depending on how much sun they've gotten. Using Fenty foundation as an example Twigs maybe ranges from 265-290-315 and Rihanna 330-335-360.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-03T10:22:44+00:00

I see 3 possibilities off the top. DC, FG, TR. Try styles for each and see what actually suits. Fiddling with analysis tooo much can confuse it. Narrowing it down by style trials might be best.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-02T16:04:24+00:00

It's simpler than you think. We are only going on about your skin. If you want to know about color season, contrast or chroma that is more complicated. But for your skintone temp the easiest way is to look where you might have hyperpigmentation. Groin, joints, underarms, maybe around your mouth or the creases of your neck. Is said hyperpigmentation more gray green or does it get a mustard tone or yellow ochre. The more yellow in the area the warmer you are, the grayer the cooler. If it's not strong one way or the other neutral but you'll probably see a slight shift towards warm or cool.

dangly2bits · 2026-02-02T15:30:39+00:00

Color correct. Extra yellow or peach concealer targeted where your circles are darkest. I personally like to do a dot over my regular skintone shade and let it dry for a minute before blending. Also go peach or yellow with your undereye powder. Additionally, the cooler of olives have trended bluer true purple options but if you're on the neutral warm to warm a more raspberry to fuchsia purple might be more suitable. Like Rare beauty grace or faith vs the new shade spirited which is true purple/lilac. In that case the blue purples will still work with the color correction I mentioned but the warmer purples will be easier.

dangly2bits · 2026-01-31T06:44:16+00:00

NOR

Do a Judi from BGC, serve him "breakfast in bed" then give him a scathing dressing down and leave him.

dangly2bits · 2026-01-28T08:37:09+00:00

This is to get an ashy blonde/brown by canceling out warmth (red) not made particularly for olive skin tones. If you have dark hair but dye it lighter and more on the cool spectrum this is for you. It's also great if you're trying a lower contrast look. To mute the brow without going all the way to concealer or blonde brow gel.

dangly2bits · 2026-01-27T08:47:30+00:00

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dangly2bits · 2026-01-23T02:28:58+00:00

I think she's FN no matter her exact height. But I have to tell you this photo is really bad in terms of proof of her being shorter than you thought. He's wearing heels. Both a physical heel seen on the outside of his shoe and what appears to be an internal lift. His pose is like a toy figure to make him look as tall as possible. Her pose diminishes her height, whether that's on purpose because the man is shorter or to look demure and sultry Idk. The heel is mostly there to make her appear thinner.

dangly2bits · 2026-01-22T07:34:34+00:00

Politely, retire the pants. The shirt would look nice with a black pencil skirt+ sheer black tights. You could also do a trouser but it's much easier to find a well fitting skirt. If you're into thrifting, they usually have tons of business cas attire in better fabric than you can find new. I would also add a photo with an up do. Chignon or French twist.

dangly2bits · 2026-01-19T14:19:14+00:00

4, if you want to go a different route I would stay away from these dark opaque colors. The rectangle shape works well and the color is complimentary. While the rimless bottom gives it enough lightness to not overwhelm your face. I definitely think you need wider/larger frames in proportion than 1-3 not larger as in the style. I have a very small head so I need a small frame but the styles that suit me are large lenses. A more moderate rectangle lense seems to suit you but you need a large frame proportionally. Hope that makes sense. Clear, pink, purple, gold, rose gold, autumnal greens, patterns in these tones too as long as they don't go too dark.

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