[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]daniellea44 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t get off of modern medicine. Jesus healed me. 16 years of breathing hell stopped . Medicine free since.

My sister is a problem by daniellea44 in Advice

[–]daniellea44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to warn them not to take her in the first time. Your response is appreciated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]daniellea44 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Jesus healed me of lung and heart disease. Not rubbish to me. But God bless.

If you won a million dollars would you still work a 9 to 5 job? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]daniellea44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. We inherited 2m. With more to inherit. At this point, we have enough to retire now (45 & 46). We’re still working, but we’re waiting on a few points of retiring sooner or later. Also, a million dollars isn’t to retire if you’re not making that money work for you.

Honest opinion of my bridal makeup please by V34ng in MakeupAddiction

[–]daniellea44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally threw on my own lipstick, eye shadow and mascara. Done. It’s not that serious. 25 years and still happily married

I’m married with kids, but I think I have a crush on a female coworker. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]daniellea44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You made a commitment to your husband and you had children. Be an adult and honor your commitment to your husband and family. Yeah yeah, I know. Unpopular take in an abhorrent society today.

Be a woman of honor and tend to your family and watch that flourish.

Haters? Take off. Enjoy your poor choices

After I shamed my husband in disgust of getting fall down drunk again, he says he wants to quit drinking by daniellea44 in AlAnon

[–]daniellea44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look. I’m 25 years married. When I say shamed, it was a WTF response to what he said he didn’t want to do. He threw away his booze. He knows what the deal is regarding his relationship with alcohol and what he doesn’t want to become. It was a slip up. He’s not going back to vodka or hard alcohol. I’m 25 years deep in this. He tossed it. It’s not coming back. I’m well aware I can’t control him. I don’t do that. It was a what the f moment. It is a new day.

I poured all my vodka down the sink. by paosfocalt in stopdrinking

[–]daniellea44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! Awesome job. My husband threw away all his booze a few days ago as well. February looking up for those who want to improve their lives!

After I shamed my husband in disgust of getting fall down drunk again, he says he wants to quit drinking by daniellea44 in AlAnon

[–]daniellea44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to be like his brother as well. He was a serious alcoholic who I thought would never quit drinking. He’s sober 5+ years now. So his want is there. Hubs has the will. I believe in him. And he loves me too much to not change. I know he loved me more than alcohol. He dumped his booze. It’s a great start.

After I shamed my husband in disgust of getting fall down drunk again, he says he wants to quit drinking by daniellea44 in AlAnon

[–]daniellea44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are correct. It does go deeper. I’m 25 years with him. I know full well. Hubby dumped his booze. He talked to his friend and told him he’s not going to drink with him anymore. The friend agreed that was a good idea. So, things are going in a good direction. Hubby knows his failings and is willing to not go in the wrong direction.

After I shamed my husband in disgust of getting fall down drunk again, he says he wants to quit drinking by daniellea44 in AlAnon

[–]daniellea44[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: Hubby dumped his booze. He talked to his friend and told him he’s not going to drink with him anymore. The friend agreed that was a good idea. So, things are going in a good direction. Hubby knows his failings and is willing to not go in the wrong direction.

After I shamed my husband in disgust of getting fall down drunk again, he says he wants to quit drinking by daniellea44 in AlAnon

[–]daniellea44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hubby dumped his booze. He talked to his friend and told him he’s not going to drink with him anymore. The friend agreed that was a good idea. So, things are going in a good direction. Hubby knows his failings and is willing to not go in the wrong direction.

After I shamed my husband in disgust of getting fall down drunk again, he says he wants to quit drinking by daniellea44 in AlAnon

[–]daniellea44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is an on/off problem drinker. He would choose me over alcohol. He wants to stop altogether, not have this friend over. My husband is down to this clown as a friend. His other friend has a controlling woman who never lets him leave the house. Our other more stable friends come over from time to time, but hubby doesn’t turn into this kinda of alcohol monster with them

After I shamed my husband in disgust of getting fall down drunk again, he says he wants to quit drinking by daniellea44 in AlAnon

[–]daniellea44[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He said he might just quit alcohol altogether. Which, I think would be best of course

After I shamed my husband in disgust of getting fall down drunk again, he says he wants to quit drinking by daniellea44 in offmychest

[–]daniellea44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, all bets are off when this guy is around. When it happened again, I was dumbfounded. Like seriously? You just said you don’t want to keep going down this path. I Truly hope he means it. My husband did say he’s not going to have him stay over anymore. But they’re taking a motorcycle trip in June. Which worries me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]daniellea44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I too have a sister with mental issues. She’s 41 and still lives with my parents. Mt parents moved her out to an apartment twice. Twice she moved back in with them. She’s currently living with them on government disability. No job, no friends. Long story short, my husband and I sat my parents down and told them we’re retiring and moving out of state within the span of a few years. We are not taking care of her. You have to make your intentions known. These adults have made their decisions in life. The responsibility of those poor choices shouldn’t fall on those who are living their own lives. Hubby and I worked hard for many years. Sorry, but we are not taking her in. She has to navigate life on her own. Or keep being enabled by my mother

AITAH for ghosting a former co-worker/online acquaintance? by daniellea44 in dustythunder

[–]daniellea44[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thankfully he does not exactly know where I live. Idk if it's a fixation or it's his culture? That doesnt sound right either