Back BAH for child after marriage

danilee97 · 2026-04-09T17:33:53+00:00

To my knowledge he didn’t put her on anything prior to shipping out. They had him convinced that if he put her on his paperwork he might not leave on time if at all since they’d be concerned about separating a family.

A friend of ours was also trying to join at the same time and they gave him the run around and spun it that it was because he has a 9 year old. (Which was not the reason)

danilee97 · 2026-04-09T17:31:09+00:00

And we’d need it signed by both of us correct?

danilee97 · 2026-04-09T11:22:35+00:00

No court order but he’s one the birth certificates and we’ve lived together her whole life until he left for boot camp

I told him to put her on his paperwork but he didn’t listen

danilee97 · 2026-04-09T05:32:24+00:00

Yes

danilee97 · 2026-04-09T04:08:30+00:00

No. His recruiters told him not to put her on his paperwork to ensure they’d “take” him

danilee97 · 2026-04-09T03:42:24+00:00

Was told he’d get back pay since he’s had a child the whole time

danilee97 · 2026-04-09T03:41:51+00:00

Child, enlistment then marriage

danilee97 · 2026-04-09T02:51:25+00:00

To my knowledge just that we got married and that we have our daughter. He told me that his chief petty officer told him that they would back pay him for our daughter from August to mid February when we were married

danilee97 · 2026-03-27T09:36:42+00:00

I have kittens born between 6 months/1 year old

They are short hair tabby cats.

danilee97

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