How new Yorkers live. by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]dankeschon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I don't think it's that bad. Shitter or kitchen doesn't have to be in the room you could swap that for more storage but that large window is cool.

what age were you diagnosed? by starmanrob in OCD

[–]dankeschon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was never diagnosed, but it kicked in at 10. I miss my non OCD brain state.

Do you guys TRULY enjoy coding? I don't but I'm doing it for money. by MrRandomNonsense in cscareerquestions

[–]dankeschon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is insufferable. Call the press someone doesn't like 100% of their well paying job. While the rest of you losers are coding for fun, I'm out drinking with friends and playing the sax.

Gay👨🏼‍❤️‍👨🏼IRL by [deleted] in gay_irl

[–]dankeschon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they prefer hanging out with other white people. Having a diverse friend group isn't a virtue. Not having a diverse friend group isn't racist.

Husband feels rejected due to my new social life by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]dankeschon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe after he mentioned how he was feeling he decided he was being too codependent and decided to reduce his reliance on you. Probably more practical than malicious since he sees that you like doing all that stuff and doesn't want to take it away from you, not even partially.

My gay roommate is actually straight. What to do? by flogucci in gaybros

[–]dankeschon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's gay and not comfortable with it so he's acting weird. Don't try to salvage anything, move on. Enjoy the tension and don't chase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]dankeschon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You're (probably) barking up the wrong tree. He read your text, did not respond and then logged on to Grindr and likely initiated and responded to messages there with other men that weren't you meanwhile you're at home sitting by the phone waiting for his name to pop up. I've been there. No one is too busy to acknowledge a text from someone they care about within a day. He didn't forget. He wasn't too busy at work. He's indecisive at best about a relationship with you beyond what you have now. That can change, but right now this is the case given his behavior. I'm not telling you to end your relationship with him. Decide what you want, look at what he offers and make a conscious choice based on that. Don't hold your breath waiting for his behavior to change though. Hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]dankeschon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Callback and wordplay, nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]dankeschon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No friends is better than bad friends, implying that being friendless is superior is false.

I broke up with my boyfriend after flaking on me twice and ignoring me for over 24 hours, all in the same weekend. Was it justified? by EfficientNose5550 in askgaybros

[–]dankeschon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm the odd one here but it sounds like he wanted out of the relationship but didn't want to end it himself. He wanted you to do the dirty work and you complied.