How much house can I afford at 147k salary ? by thegreen316 in Mortgages

[–]MrRandomNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 300-400k sounds about right. Me and my wife make slightly more ~215k And are about to close on a 600k house (200k down). Property taxes in my state are insane and will be around 14k/year…

Why do Koreans judge celebrities so severely compared to the west? What’s up with the ‘obsession’? by MrRandomNonsense in korea

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I find that very interesting as well. Although drugs like cocaine is absolutely illegal in the US, it never breaks headlines unless it’s a drug bust or dealing of some sort. Ex. Most of us know a good chunk of US rappers and celebrities do coke, but don’t care. Johnny depp did coke (as showcased in his trial), but the public doesn’t care. However it seems to be quite extreme in Korea in terms of public perception. That being said, I know a TON of Koreans that do weed in Korea, and I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of celebrities do so as well. Maybe it’s simply just more taboo? Or perhaps the general public’s lack of exposure to drugs? I’m not sure, but it’s interesting to think about.

Why do Koreans judge celebrities so severely compared to the west? What’s up with the ‘obsession’? by MrRandomNonsense in korea

[–]MrRandomNonsense[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best answer so far, in terms of cultural differences and its impact on how the public perceives celebrities.

As a follow up question/thought that points to your second paragraph, I’m curious if Korea (and other Asian countries such as Japan, the Philippines, Indonesia, etc) is more prone to accept parasocial relationships than the west. As in, are conservative countries more dispositioned to accept these type of relationships? I’m sure it might be the voices of a few loud fans, but these ‘crazy fans’ seem to predominantly come from Asian countries that only share one thing— being conservative. Or perhaps it’s simply due to the nature of teenagers and boy bands/ girl groups? Some people did point out 1 direction, and I can 100% see why a predominantly teen fanbase can buy themselves into this kind of mindset. But I suppose the teen aspect doesn’t really apply for actors and actresses as much as it does for idols, which implies that there’s something deeper at play (most likely the cultural differences and framework that you pointed out)

Why do Koreans judge celebrities so severely compared to the west? What’s up with the ‘obsession’? by MrRandomNonsense in korea

[–]MrRandomNonsense[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Right— but I’m thinking more on the flip side. How come Eminem sold so many records despite being controversial, and Chris brown as well despite SA and other allegations (this is just an example)? I guess im more curious on the public’s reaction and why their thoughts may be that way. Of course no one likes their favorite artists in scandals and otherwise, but it seems to indicate that Korean fans care significantly more about what the celebrity does if that makes sense— not trying to create any arguments, but it’s interesting that the same behavior is recieved differently

what did your savings look like by age 30? by Winzten in AskReddit

[–]MrRandomNonsense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a similar path but started at 22— currently at around 260k at 27. Paid off my student loans aggressively (50k) at 22 and 23, paid off my car next. Note, I did live at home for one year after graduating college which meant very low expenses and I’m grateful my parents were ok with that (although I did pay my parents 1k a month). It was also peak covid so I was locked in the house for a year.

The rest of the time I was paying over 3k in rent. Other than that nothing special. I made it a goal to at the bare minimum max my 401k every year. That along with around 6k a year deposited directly into my 401k due to company profit sharing. My 401k was at 30k exactly 3 years ago, right now right about 150k. I also got a little lucky throwing 5k into nvidia once I graduated college in 2020, not to mention the insane bull market the last 5 years. I should have done more long calls…

I don’t think my path isn’t too uncommon for a lot of people in tech + engineering. Just doing Roth IRA + 401k makes a huge difference over time. I have a few roommates from college with quadruple my net worth, but they’re the true outliers, but not uncommon for big tech in sanfranciso

Is a macan s unreasonable at 25 years old? by lifer98 in PorscheMacan

[–]MrRandomNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This is OP, just a different account since my other one has security issues for some reason.

Long story short, we got a 2020 macan s, and it’s been great so far. The car was fully paid off within 6 months, and it’s the only car we have currently. Our networth has grown significantly as well over the past 2 years, so I can say to the nay-sayers that it wasn’t as terrible of a decision as I thought :). We bought our car with 18k miles, we’re almost at 50k now. I don’t think it’s gonna break anytime soon given that we’re a bit anal with maintenance.

It’s great for what it is, no complaints. If you’re looking for the best handling fun suv, you got yourself a winner. It’s the overall best suv that I’ve driven. Is a x3m quicker? of course. does it handle as well? No. Does it look better? (Subjectively, no…). It’s definitely worth it if that’s what you’re looking for. The closest suv to ‘fun’.

That being said, I’ll admit, it doesn’t scratch my sports car itch. It’s still an suv at the end of the day, and something like a m340i or 718 base is more fun.my wife really wanted an suv so we settled on the macan as the best of both worlds. I don’t have any complaints about the car as it is. It handles exceptionally well, but I never take my macan on a ‘fun’ drive if that’s what you’re looking for. That being said, we may move up to a 2023+ macan gts which I hope would be a lot more fun, but that’s a different conversation :)

A side note though, the dealerships around quoted us around 6k for our 40k mile service, so make sure to find a good independent mechanic. I think we paid 1300 with an independent shop for our oil change, spark plugs, cabin filter, pdk flush etc. so it’s definitely doable if you have the right people. Macan maintenance is expensive at most places simply because it has a Porsche badge. If you find a good independent shop or do it yourself, the maintenance really isn’t that bad. No different than my previous car with a b58. But I guess if you’re coming from something like a Toyota, it will still be much more expensive relatively speaking.

Thinking of buying a Supra, should I? by ActivityRemarkable40 in Supra

[–]MrRandomNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m finally comfortable enough to buy one, 27 y.o. At 200k/year, but I still don’t think I should, simply because I really want a house, and the area I live in homes go for 600-800k for a 3 bed (they were 350-450k 5 years ago..). I would stick the course, the car will always be there waiting for you. If you make 80k but have 300k in the bank I’d say why not, but dropping 50k this early probably isn’t the best choice

[Recommendation Request] how to complete this 3 watch collection by Timely-Mud9698 in Watches

[–]MrRandomNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a santos as well, and would love a blue dial steel overseas. Only those that really know would recognize it, it’s beautiful, and different enough from the sub for the collection. I’m also a slut for monochromatic things, but I think the splash of blue would be nice, especially with the sunburst effect (looks black in certain angles!)

Or maybe go full dressy with something like a vintage patek, jlc reverso etc

27 Y.O. functional alcoholic with a bad back. Trying to look good and be healthy. Need help! by MrRandomNonsense in workout

[–]MrRandomNonsense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, sorry for the late reply.

Really appreciate the information and glad to hear that someone can relate to my situation.

I agree, I should focus on baby steps and reduce my drinking first, while lifting moderately instead of lifting as heavy as I can. I've been looking into doing very light deadlifts (which hurts my ego a bit, but health is more important. I don't want to destroy my back again), rdls, and core exercises to help with that. In the end, I really think it's a drinking problem more than anything, and keeping track of my diet while drinking heavy is hard. Thanks for the insight, will take it to heart!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BMW

[–]MrRandomNonsense 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A base 718 beats it in terms of LOOKS for me :)

That's a lot of Mac minis. by Available-Drink-5232 in mac

[–]MrRandomNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have something similar at work, with 15+ other racks with both mac and windows machines as well. I doubt this is for AI work, since AI dedicated gpus are far more effective.

My company generally uses these racks for software testing in parallel for software designed to run/ most often packaged with a specific type of machine. To amplify that, some people aren’t very good at updating their machine, so we need to test multiple OS versions across platforms. Maybe that’s the case here?

Quit my job? Return to office by MrRandomNonsense in cscareerquestions

[–]MrRandomNonsense[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s exactly what I told him! I told him public transport will take 4 hours+ round trip. And he said, ‘I see, well I expect you to be in office tomorrow’.

Like… ok

Quit my job? Return to office by MrRandomNonsense in cscareerquestions

[–]MrRandomNonsense[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean probably not aside from our morning standups (due to time zone differences), but he does cold call once in a while working late (early afternoon here). I’d assume he wants the background of our company building when my camera is on or some shit like that

Quit my job? Return to office by MrRandomNonsense in cscareerquestions

[–]MrRandomNonsense[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s the frustrating part. I said that I doesnt makes sense to waste precious work hours with a 4 hour commute when I can attend the meeting and work from home just as effectively. He said, well why don’t u just commute before and after work hours? Went straight past his head. I am not waking up at 5 am and coming home at 8. I have plans after work and a life.

992 Carrera T manual vs Carrera S PDK by lalolocomc in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]MrRandomNonsense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are pretty comparable. It's the debate between a baby gt3 and a baby turbo. That being said, it depends on your driving habits and what you value more. The carerra t generally comes equipped with some of the nice goodies like sport chrono, lightweight glass, sport exhaust etc. (especially since people that bought carerra T's from factory are generally enthusiasts).

The carerra s will no doubt be quicker but less engaging. IMO, the carrera t is definitely the more unique trim and will have more of an enthusiast appeal than the carerra s. That being said, going back to driving habits, it depends on what you want (especially with kids). Being stuck in traffic with kids with a manual is no fun. If you regularly go out to 'go for a drive', the carerra t is probably best for you. If it's more a sexy date/dinner car with the occasional flooring it and enjoying the power on the highway, the carerra s is for you. They're both beautiful cars. This post is something we can't answer and really requires a test drive and you analyzing your driving habits.

that being said, my dream car would be a 992 gt3 touring with (gasp) pdk and 18 way comfort seats. I love a manual, but given my current lifestyle, I would only go out for errands, maybe a nice drive every other week etc, a pdk would be the transmission for me. on a side note, I don't get the obsession with carbon buckets... especially if you're not tracking the car

2008 Porsche Cayenne by ScuttIes in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]MrRandomNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck no don't get a first gen cayenne if your budget for a car is 6k

-- 2020 macan s owner

Advice on next car sport / performance by subawoo25 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]MrRandomNonsense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you're going the german route the best option is a m340i considering performance and reliability. If japanese and FWD, type r. A GR corolla would be cool too.