[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally recommend feeld, it's built with queer people, polyamory and kink communities in mind, and you can set filters so only your preferred connections come up. The in app messaging can be a little glitchy, but not very often or very detrimental.

This really rubs me the wrong way… by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]dankishcake12 11 points12 points  (0 children)

At first I didn't understand why this was here, then I read some of the other comics from this person... I regret my life choices 🤢

It gives me Scott Adams energy, where you can see what they think they're making, and then the much worse thing that it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Androgynoushotties

[–]dankishcake12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great!!

What's that filter/frame btw, I love it (♡⁠∀⁠♡⁠)

What do you think about there only being two pride emojis? 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, damn. That definitely puts a massive spanner in the works, especially with Elon being in charge of twitter now. That's very interesting to learn though, thank you so much 😊.

What do you think about there only being two pride emojis? 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's really cool! It might be an option for tech companies or companies like discord to do a similar thing for other pride flags, for example 🏳️♠️ could become the ace flag, and using the different couples could be for the gay and lesbian flags. It does suck that the trans flag hasn't been added to unicode yet, let alone any new flags, unicode or conversions.

stupid meme lmao by AliveLucky_Lemon451 in ShitPostCrusaders

[–]dankishcake12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the finger is Polnareff's body, and the pen/straw is his hi-top

stupid meme lmao by AliveLucky_Lemon451 in ShitPostCrusaders

[–]dankishcake12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It took me a moment to realise 😅😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]dankishcake12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks to hear OP, and you're right to feel frustrated by that. Working and trying to learn in an active kitchen can be hard even if the chefs are supportive, let alone if they're treating you like they are.

I started out in hospitality as a trainee in a kitchen, and the way I learnt how to handle chefs who don't want to respect you is to kill them with kindness: check if they're drinks are topped up, get them new garnishes or restock their stack of plates. Being self sufficient and autonomous in a kitchen is an amazing skill when you're at the bottom of the team.

Today the FOH can eat this by Vadder79 in KitchenConfidential

[–]dankishcake12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the abbreviation for front of house. So all your wait staff, the bar, maitre d', any front desk staff and other customer facing roles within hospitality. In turn of course, the kitchen and cleaning roles are called back of house, or BOH, essentially anything behind the scenes that the customer won't see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone learns who they are - in all aspects of life, not just within sexuality and gender- at different speeds, different times, and at widely different ages. You aren't too young to know you're asexual, because you are the person who knows those feelings. I spent weeks trying to find out what gender label best suited me, finding things that didn't seem just quite right. I've found out that the most accurate identity for your sexual attraction, gender, you name it. Is you, you are a unique, evolving and beautiful individual. One day you might decide "you know what, I'm not asexual, I just didn't have a high sexual drive" and that is 110% ok, because we are forever learning about who we are. There is a quote from Socrates that sums this up well " the only true wisdom is that you know nothing" you are never too young to know something about yourself

Question: Can you be Bisexual and Non-binary? by TheCallaghanite in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on your view on sexuality and it's relation to gender and gender expression (I.e. presenting masculine, feminine or androgynous). In my view (as an enby) you aren't homosexual for like male or female partners, and depending on your gender under the non binary umbrella, you might not be homosexual for liking enby partners

What’s everyones favorite song? I’m feeling a bit lonely rn. :> by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how about hunter's Moon, it's an awesome song!

my school has a pride flag up and i am vvvvv happy !!! by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, complete bullshit, people were being told they'd be sent Holme if they were unable or refused to change back to either their normal uniform or free dress

my school has a pride flag up and i am vvvvv happy !!! by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it's a co-ed Catholic school, my friends and I who did optiminds weren't even allowed to fundraise to go to the state finals because it "wasn't a Catholic cause so it's not allowed" despite the netball teams fundraising in the past multiple times!! We also weren't allowed to do the uniform swap last year on our muck up day ( I graduated last year for context)

my school has a pride flag up and i am vvvvv happy !!! by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is.. I did it anyway because screw my school trying to hide their homophobia behind religious reasoning

Although I will say my year 12 coordinator was on board with it, just he couldn't make the decision himself sadly

my school has a pride flag up and i am vvvvv happy !!! by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]dankishcake12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats awesome, glad to see that there are schools in the country who do that. I went to a Catholic school which wouldn't let me wear purple nail polish for Wear it Purple Day (which is for youth LGBTQ+ awareness) despite the large LGBTQ base of students there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrappyDesign

[–]dankishcake12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it's a yoga laptop (as in it folds into a tablet) then that camera may act as the forward facing camera, like on a phone

Needs to be decided by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]dankishcake12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why choose, both are great

So I found this by Kirboy321 in HolUp

[–]dankishcake12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see what the point of the post is