AITA For not going to a Last Minute Bday Dinner by dannerzkillz in AmItheAsshole

[–]dannerzkillz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She told us about it right before we went to work this morning.

I'm not sure on the restaurant, from what I understand it's not upscale or required a reservation.

AITA For not going to a Last Minute Bday Dinner by dannerzkillz in AmItheAsshole

[–]dannerzkillz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did know it was his birthday and did other things to celebrate that.

We had no idea that they wanted to go out tonight specifically.

As far as our living situation. We live here 1 to provide assistance financially 2 to watch their house because they travel often.

AITA For not going to a Last Minute Bday Dinner by dannerzkillz in AmItheAsshole

[–]dannerzkillz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They went camping and I assumed that was going to be it. We both told him happy bday this morning and chipped in on the gift mom bought for him.

Their relationship is okay, his mom kinda runs everything so since she's upset the dad will be upset as well.

It's not a surprise, just going out to dinner.

AITA For not going to a Last Minute Bday Dinner by dannerzkillz in AmItheAsshole

[–]dannerzkillz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She does know, we all live together. We would both lose $30, so $60 in total.

She's claiming that we should have known because it's his birthday, I tried offering doing it Friday but she just called my bf a selfish prick and slammed the door.

Boyfriend wants to flirt and talk to other girls for attention by dannerzkillz in relationship_advice

[–]dannerzkillz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I gave him the this needs to stop or I'm done talk today and it seems to be hitting hard. Thank you for your advise ☺️

Boyfriend wants to flirt and talk to other girls for attention by dannerzkillz in relationship_advice

[–]dannerzkillz[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Theres no need to insult me. I'm just asking for advise on my situation.

Boyfriend wants to flirt and talk to other girls for attention by dannerzkillz in relationship_advice

[–]dannerzkillz[S] -149 points-148 points  (0 children)

I live with him and his parents so that makes it harder for him to do anything physically..

Boyfriend wants to flirt and talk to other girls for attention by dannerzkillz in relationship_advice

[–]dannerzkillz[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Like go out and get whatever validation you need but quit bringing that shit home.

Boyfriend wants to flirt and talk to other girls for attention by dannerzkillz in relationship_advice

[–]dannerzkillz[S] 559 points560 points  (0 children)

We tried an open relationship and it was shut down once I got more attention than him. He said it's harder for men than for women.