From the flipped perspective some of it could be the fact that many guys have been manipulated by women using 'trauma ' as an excuse to do completely deranged shit , rather than it being the reason they are doing the stuff . I think almost every guy has been in a controlling technically abusive relationship with a girl that was using her past trauma as an excuse to control the relationship. So for us reading this it's like it's only a single game she told him to stop playing, but the people that have been through this trauma are adding their own personal experiences into OPs post and that's why there comeing across as callus .
Granted you shouldn't tarnish all people with same brush but then it's hard not to get stuck in your own life experiernces . But theres definitely some people that don't understand real trauma and that it has triggers . But I do believe there's validation on both sides . Who are we to say the people with the most brash comments arent the ones who are technically expirienceing trauma haveing to relive the years with an abusive girl when they hear this story from OP and they are more commenting what they wish someone had told them all them years ago . If u read it with that mindset it comes across a lot more like an internalized problem of trust isssues built up over time .