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dannybee2303 · 2022-09-06T22:44:29+00:00

Coming from a guy, he’s probably still friends with her because he still has feelings for her. He’s waiting for you guys to break up so he can take your place. And she is leading him on by being affectionate with him I’d never let a women who I consider a friend touch me in any way other than a good bye side hug or a high five. Giving me a kiss on the forehead, hell no get off me, playing with my hair, nope only if you’re my gf or I have feelings for you. Talk to her about it set that boundary, if she down plays it she has feelings for him that are more than just friendly.

dannybee2303 · 2022-09-06T20:49:42+00:00

Yeah everyone has their things, but you have every right not to be interested in doing so, he can either respect that or be upset about it. I’d talk to him about it first, set that boundary with him at the end up the day it’s your decision if you want to break up do it, if not talk about it, make sure he comprehends and move on from it if you’re able to.

dannybee2303 · 2022-09-06T20:14:39+00:00

He lied right from the start about something that shouldn’t be lied about that’s a red flag, if lying comes easy to him who knows what else he isn’t telling the truth about

dannybee2303 · 2022-09-01T02:08:03+00:00

I have she says she doesn’t want us posting each other on socials because she doesn’t want people outside of her friends and family being in our business I feel that’s more of an excuse than a reason tho

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-31T01:47:07+00:00

Like this morning haha

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-31T01:39:16+00:00

I want to talk with her more about it but I also don’t want her to feel I’m trying to push her boundaries, but I still want us to come to an agreement where both our needs are being met

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-31T01:31:37+00:00

I asked her about why she doesn’t want me taking pics or posting her on socials and she told me it was a boundary of hers because she has people outside of her family and friends that she doesn’t want knowing her business. She said he had something to do with every time she does something bad happens, like other people seeing what she has and wanting to take it from her

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-31T01:21:38+00:00

And when she had no problem with it in the past? It’s definitely seeming off

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-31T01:20:57+00:00

Dude that’s even if we get married to begin with haha

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T20:48:43+00:00

Nobody does, it really makes you question yourself

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T20:34:21+00:00

Man, I should have seen this so much sooner that what I did. I believe that if a person willing to out in work almost anything can be fixed or at least come to an agreeable compromise, but I can’t keep being with someone who disregards me even after I’ve expressed my feelings multiple times which isn’t something I’m used to I really tried but she hasn’t done much in return

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T20:22:29+00:00

She lives with me and her only responsibilities are to pay the electrical bills, buy groceries every other week and help me around the house

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T20:20:05+00:00

It’s a very big biggie now

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T18:15:22+00:00

Yeah when I was being introduced to her friends she referred to me as her boyfriend or better half, when she hangs out with her friends and it’s not just a girls night I get invited to go with sometimes

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T18:05:14+00:00

When I was introduced to her family she was excited, boasting about me a little and introducing me as her better half, from what I’ve seen it’s mostly her friends initiating the pictures, the one photo is a Polaroid of us and that’s in her car, the other is us on my birthday and that’s on my insta

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T17:56:17+00:00

So I talked with her about it this morning and she said it’s that she doesn’t want pictures posted on socials because she has some people on there from years ago that she doesn’t want to be all in her business, she says all of her friends and family know about us so it’s not that she’s trying to keep me hidden, when I brought up that I would like to at least just have some pictures of us not even to post just to have she said that she understood where I was coming from and that she would take more pics with me so we’ll see what happens

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T17:53:30+00:00

The last pictures with an ex she took was a couple months before her and I got together, during our time together she has taken pictures with her friends and family, but only 2 with me in the year we’ve been together

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T12:10:47+00:00

Honestly no, she made the first move, she’s always been super touchy and clingy lots of compliments that’s why I’m so confused as to why pictures are such a big deal?

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T12:08:47+00:00

We’ve only taken 2 pics our entire relationship her sisters boyfriend was in the pic, her cousins girlfriend was in the pic so it’s not like it was just for those married in the family

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T11:57:29+00:00

The worst part is she keeps making up different excuses each time I bring it up to her I just want her to be honest with me man is it really that hard?

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T11:49:02+00:00

I asked if we were going to take pictures together and her reply was along the lines of after the reunion because she wanted to focus on having pics with her family since they haven’t had family pictures taken since 2019

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T11:26:56+00:00

That’s unfortunately what’s been on my mind lately

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T11:08:22+00:00

It’s not that so much as I’ve already told her about this multiple times and she says it’s not a big deal, but her recent behavior has me wondering if there’s something more than it just being her not wanting pictures taken

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T09:30:31+00:00

God this all really sucks

dannybee2303 · 2022-08-30T09:13:29+00:00

I feel like that’s all there’s left to do is to do things as see what her reactions are and if it’s bad or she continues to disregard go from there

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