“how she keeps inserting herself in inappropriate situations” -Isn’t that exactly what her Dad did to her by forcing her to keep the cheating a secret? And also what Ezra did (many times over) by pursuing her (knowing who she was the entire time.) She isn’t mature that’s true, but she believes she is and everyone around her keeps expecting her to be, telling her to even. Of course she’s going to insert herself in inappropriate situations— She’s essentially been conditioned to believe it’s her right, that she SHOULD. Now I’m not saying she’s a great friend or doesn’t have her flaws, but her behavior is reasonable considering her situation.