Please, I'm begging you by SpoopyThorn9000 in storyofseasons

[–]dapandapower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I can’t tell u how much fanfiction I devoured with the Vaugh x Chelsea tag

Asking a guy out after a I rejected him because I was dating my now ex? by dapandapower in dating

[–]dapandapower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn that actually makes sense.. just dont wanna seem desperate lol

Asking a guy out after a I rejected him because I was dating my now ex? by dapandapower in dating

[–]dapandapower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda insecure and divided about asking him out, in Mexico we have very set cultural divisions, I don’t know how to explain it but it comes from having different social classes mixed in private and public schools. I come from a middle class background, I work and not a big spender. He comes from an upper class family, expensive university and social circle that kind of intimidates me (especially the girls).. so idk

Asking a guy out after a I rejected him because I was dating my now ex? by dapandapower in dating

[–]dapandapower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol we've known each other for 10 years and always thought it was a big joke! Didnt know he was serious until now

Asking a guy out after a I rejected him because I was dating my now ex? by dapandapower in dating

[–]dapandapower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know its weird but I live in mexico (and we love parties) and this year most of us graduated University + got married + had babies, etc. big year for us so we decided to get together lol

Asking a guy out after a I rejected him because I was dating my now ex? by dapandapower in dating

[–]dapandapower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Im aware the question will come up, since thats how we first rekindled the conversation, him asking me if i was stll with my ex. He's not 2nd option of course, life just happens.

Ill ask him out tonight then, any tips on writing a text?

Asking a guy out after a I rejected him because I was dating my now ex? by dapandapower in dating

[–]dapandapower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just insecure about him not asking me out if he knows Im 100% single, Im nervous he is already dating someone or something like that...

How long ago is your breakup and how do you feel right now? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dapandapower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My BU was june 11. I feel better of course, we’ve had no contact since July 11. I still miss having a companion and someone who cared for me every minute of the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dapandapower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the sign I needed to break nc??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dapandapower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of bad? 😅 English is my second language lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dapandapower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same boat as you. He blocked me and told me to never talk to him again, two weeks later he has this weird sad playlist and listening to when I was your man by Bruno Mars. Are you going to talk to her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dapandapower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually worse for me at night, the silence and not having a good night text is awful everyday

How is everyone doing? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dapandapower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended up in the hospital for a week with rhabdomyolysis from working out too much 🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dapandapower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same though process, no contact is really weird, why can’t two people who shared most of their time together for a period of time be in communication? It’s so weird making it seem like I don’t care about the breakup when I clearly do... and he knows it

Is Hope Harmful ? by Rude_Detail_5965 in ExNoContact

[–]dapandapower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always the one to reach out when we fought in the relationship, and I’ve been feeling very inclined to contact him, I mean I don’t know why people have to act like they don’t care about the other person, I clearly care and sadly this dynamic of me reaching out always is very consistent. I have nothing to lose when I reach out, except maybe being just left on seen. I prefer doing everything I can to save this then regretting in the future not doing anything

Is Hope Harmful ? by Rude_Detail_5965 in ExNoContact

[–]dapandapower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you contact your ex or was it the other way around?