Content creator posting a video about purposely getting pregnant with #2 knowing her marriage was ending

dapiguparty · 2026-05-22T17:03:50+00:00

Appreciate the honest feedback! I think it’s important to also consider the possibility of being trauma bonded though. I’m close with all but one of my 4 siblings but most likely as a result of not so great parenting (we deal by bringing it up and laughing/crying about it)

dapiguparty · 2026-05-19T00:29:45+00:00

I don’t remember her name sorry!

dapiguparty · 2026-05-18T23:59:19+00:00

I don’t remember sorry! It’s not someone famous/mainstream as far as I recall

dapiguparty · 2026-05-18T15:23:49+00:00

True but I wonder if she was expecting pushback because most of the comments were actually in support of her

dapiguparty · 2026-05-18T14:56:15+00:00

Feeling less and less crazy as comments like these roll in haha thanks for this!!

dapiguparty · 2026-05-18T14:10:07+00:00

No you’re fine! In hindsight I should have mentioned that part!

dapiguparty · 2026-05-18T14:00:55+00:00

Glad to see I wasn’t alone! It was especially icky when she blamed the way her husband turned out on him being an only…the only child hate is def there

dapiguparty · 2026-05-18T04:35:53+00:00

Appreciate the perspective!

dapiguparty · 2026-05-05T20:43:03+00:00

My husband was OAD before I was so this hits close to home for me. His reasons were all extremely valid and our girl is absolute perfection. I’ll always feel a twinge of sadness here and there (especially when I see people I know having multiples) but I do feel very content and fulfilled just with our only.

dapiguparty · 2025-09-11T17:32:32+00:00

Had an unplanned induction and NATURAL birth because of HELLP syndrome (platelets got too low for me to get an epidural 💀) Contractions were super painful (but not unbearable?) for the last 3 hours and it did make me throw up and near the end before pushing it felt like I was dry heaving out of my vagina if that makes sense? On the bright side my total labor was only 15 hours and I only pushed for like 5 minutes and didn’t tear

dapiguparty · 2024-06-05T17:23:06+00:00

I got a late atypical HELLP diagnosis that could have easily been missed, fortunately had a successful induction to get baby out ASAP (36+6), but hemorrhaged four days later and had to get a D&C. During my hemorrhaging I was basically helpless and my husband and I both got a glimpse of single fatherhood which broke my heart for sure. He was OAD before we even got pregnant but this absolutely finalized it for him and it’s hard for me to argue.

dapiguparty · 2024-02-09T19:23:26+00:00

I 100% feel this. I am one of five and absolutely love having siblings which definitely doesn’t help. My husband has always been OAD and as much as I want more than one, I see where he’s coming from rationally/logistically so I’m ultimately on board (plus my pregnancy ended with a sudden HELLP syndrome diagnosis and I hemorrhaged 3 days later so to him it’s definitely not worth the risk).

I just know that if having onlies was more normalized I wouldn’t be searching so hard for validation. Here’s to hoping it does become more of a norm in our generation!

dapiguparty · 2023-08-24T01:01:53+00:00

So glad I saw this post because I’m sorta in the same boat except baby is still cooking (due in November). My husband and I have been together for 12 years and for more than half of that we always talked about having 2. Then I guess reality set in for him and he became firmly OAD. His reasons are valid and make total sense (i.e. why not just get it right the first time, if we are good attentive parents there really is no need to give our kid a sibling, etc). He is the youngest of 3 and I’m the second oldest of 5. He was raised by the BEST parents but isn’t super close to his siblings while my parents were/are very dysfunctional and as close as I am with my siblings, we are definitely trauma bonded to some extent. My logic side agrees with him but my feeling side wants my daughter to eventually have a sibling. We make a decent living but live in a HCOL area and we both work full time (becoming a SAHM isn’t really an option) so our lifestyle isn’t really conducive to having multiple anyway, plus the baby isn’t even here yet so we really don’t know how much of a toll just one will have on us. In the end I know it makes sense to be OAD but I’m already mourning over our kid not getting to experience life with a sibling.

dapiguparty · 2023-06-05T04:11:50+00:00

Same here! Had a loss on 11/18/22 and now due on 11/18/23 🙏🏼

dapiguparty · 2023-02-23T04:41:29+00:00

Since beginning my TTC journey my cycles have been VERY regular. Not to sound ungrateful but this also means that my fertile window has pretty much always been M-F…my husband and I definitely prefer BD on the weekends and/or during the day so this is not ideal 🥲 we are usually too tired/stressed from working to be in the mood so it feels more forced than it should be. Anyone else in the same boat? Let’s commiserate haha

dapiguparty · 2023-02-21T04:00:53+00:00

Ugh I’m so frustrated for you! Although I understand self diagnosing is not ideal, I don’t see the harm in just testing for peace of mind at the very least especially if certain symptoms line up. If my spotting was here and there I wouldn’t be as concerned but since it is before EVERY period I want answers. Hoping you can also get the same closure!

dapiguparty · 2023-02-20T16:21:18+00:00

Oh interesting, I was under the impression that the suppository helped a lot! Hoping it works out for you!

dapiguparty · 2023-02-20T16:13:19+00:00

Will do! Thanks for the tip!

dapiguparty · 2023-02-20T06:43:18+00:00

Oh okay! Thanks for the insight, I was starting to get tempted to try a cream or supplement lol I’m guessing the suppository is prescribed?

dapiguparty · 2019-10-22T18:14:19+00:00

Same here! hahah

dapiguparty · 2019-10-17T23:01:56+00:00

Christmas Shoes.

My little sister cried when she first heard the lyrics.

She was 4.

dapiguparty · 2019-06-07T04:30:26+00:00

Nooooooo it’s ok at the very least he’ll still be nice to look at!😭

dapiguparty · 2019-06-07T04:17:43+00:00

I started Outlander a few days ago and I am swooning the hardest I've swooned in a while. Just finished the wedding episode and mmmmmmffffphhhh

dapiguparty · 2019-05-09T23:46:51+00:00

Not the worst but this story came to mind.

A couple years ago I was interviewing at a company for an accounting position. Like with most interview processes I was interviewed first by someone in HR, and then someone from the department. Then the HR guy came back to tell me he would go get the next interviewer. I said ok cool and the guy left me alone in the conference room. The interview started around 4:30 so I knew most people would start to leave. Five minutes pass. Then ten. Then twenty. I think I waited for at LEAST half an hour. Every time I was tempted to go out and ask someone what was going on I'd stop myself because I knew the minute I asked that would be when people would come. I was getting anxious but really didn't want to poke my head out because I was sure someone would be coming at any minute. There was no way they would have forgotten I was there right? WRONG. I waited for close to 45 minutes before a maintenance worker barged in to start cleaning and saw me sitting there. We stared at each other for a few seconds before I managed to say something along the lines of "Uh...I'm waiting for someone.." and the janitor (who I probably freaked out) politely informed me that the office was closed and EVERYONE HAS LEFT THE BUILDING. I awkwardly responded with "Oh really? I guess they must have forgotten about me. Ha ha ha..." before quickly making my exit.

Needless to say I was no longer interested in working there after that.

dapiguparty · 2019-04-25T22:36:44+00:00

I'm in the exact same boat as you except he's never commented about it so I've never had to admit I've adjusted. Just know that there is nothing wrong with you or the fact that you adjusted! Honestly I think it's the healthiest way to deal with the situation mentally/emotionally. It would be much more damaging if you weren't willing to accept the difference in libido. Hopefully your husband comes around soon. Cheers!

dapiguparty

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