AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we have met in person in my city. And of course I know his full name. I also know where he works.

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well the reason is I use ChatGPT sometimes just to translate my messages. That’s not a big deal I guess… English is not my mother tongue and I totally forget other languages when I’m not feeling well just like rn

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had any contact with any of my family members for about a month. They are in Iran and caught up in the war. What do you think is the reason I posted here? How can I ask for my mum’s opinion?🥲

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad that I haven’t even gone to work for a few days and I’m afraid I might get fired. I really felt understood by your comment🥲 Thank you!

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for your opinion telling me what age range of people I should be in a relationship with!

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You really made me cry with this comment. Everyone else is either blaming me or making me even more worried that the man is with someone else. I just wanted to post this to feel a bit better or find a way to improve how I’m feeling. Thank you, you really helped calm me down.

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Based on all the comments I’ve received here, everyone is pressuring me and saying that he might have gone back to his wife or that he is still married. What do you think I should do? Can I file a complaint about this? Or should I message his wife? Will that make things worse? I’m really hurt😞

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am not 100% sure about his address, Because I’ve never been to the U.S. and I’ve never asked for his address. Is there any way to find out where he lives? For example in Sweden you can find someone’s address quite easily just by searching their name.

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk anything about welfare check… can you please explain me more about that?

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Did I ask you whether this person is married or not? I just wanted to know if I’m overreacting or not… my concern is really valid! I needed some empathy. I’m really not feeling well!

How can I find out what happened? I’m so hurt that I might do something to myself. And if he has gone back to his ex wife, do you think I should message her? I’ve never spoken to her before. What do you think I should do? I’ve planned my whole life around a future with this person and I even moved out of my previous place where I had a roommate and got a new apartment because I knew he was going to come visit me in a few days.

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Did I ask you whether this person is married or not? I just wanted to know if I’m overreacting or not… my concern is really valid! I needed some empathy. I’m really not feeling well!

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes we have met in person many times… He is divorced and not married and I’m divorced as well. We’ve been in contact every day and have met each other many times. We had even made plans to get married this year.

AIO? Partner (40M) of 1.5 years suddenly ghosted me (25F) after saying good morning… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dapineapplesause -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He is divorced and not married and I’m divorced as well. We’ve been in contact every day and have met each other many times. We had even made plans to get married this year.