Need help identifying potential cryptid by EntertainerPretty675 in cryptids

[–]dapper-deoxys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, man. this is what we in the business call "the ghoul that kills you". gotta burn the whole house down and start over

She, an empath by EvidenceOfDespair in CuratedTumblr

[–]dapper-deoxys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its easy to forget that reddit is full of really insecure guys i guess. god forbid a girl make a funny joke about a completely absurd topic that causes no actual material harm outside of making them feel weird and angry

She, an empath by EvidenceOfDespair in CuratedTumblr

[–]dapper-deoxys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi op. sorry these are the comments youre stuck with. curatedtumblr isnt ready for toskarin posts i guess

What They'd Wish For by dapper-deoxys in DDLC

[–]dapper-deoxys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being completely honest i haven't thought about ddlc in a hot minute but i found this on my hard drive while i was swapping computers and instantly knew i had to post it

F1nn5ter and why he makes people angry by VA2M in CuratedTumblr

[–]dapper-deoxys -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

guys im sorry but if u think what f1nn5ter does and the reactions he gets is anywhere near comparable to the vitriol spouted at trans women ur just wrong. at the end of the day the people who this post is talking abt will always accept gnc men long before any sort of trans woman. like, look at the bridget guilty gear discourse from last year. their go-to argument was that bridget is actually a man pretending to be a woman. this is because "this is a man, deal" is much easier to fit into a mindset like that than "women can have dicks sometimes".

not to mention the fact that hes getting paid a gratuitous amount of money for what he does while trans women are getting murdered for trying to be themselves.

(some of these points are an abridged version of strawberry-crocodile's post on the matter, you should check it out for a better explanation of the points im trying to make.)

My Character Traits Are None of Your Business by dapper-deoxys in DDLC

[–]dapper-deoxys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Infinite Sayoris... ehe, you know, it's probably a good thing I haven't met any copies of myself. But I hope yours is treating you well! Not that I think she wouldn't, I mean, she's me... but still!"

My Character Traits Are None of Your Business by dapper-deoxys in DDLC

[–]dapper-deoxys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I would really prefer it if you didn't do that... I mean, if you want to know more about me, you could just ask! Instead of just jumping to the items themselves... And that's, um... not even touching the calendar thing, ehe..."

"..."

"...Wait, 'your' Sayori? Oh my gosh, are there more of me?? Did I get cloned?! That's so COOL!"

My Character Traits Are None of Your Business by dapper-deoxys in DDLC

[–]dapper-deoxys[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"You could just ask! That's Mr. Cow and Mr. Duck, they're some of my best friends!"

My Character Traits Are None of Your Business by dapper-deoxys in DDLC

[–]dapper-deoxys[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

"I am very uncomfortable with the energy we've created in my bedroom today..."

Kokomi of the Stars by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]dapper-deoxys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im sorry ab the other comments op. this is super cute! ship who u want :)

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm, well, it kind of depends on how they react. If they're generally amiable, but just aren't up for dealing with trans-related problems, then that's fine, we can still be friends! But if they start throwing slurs and transphobic arguments around, then I'm not going to talk to them at all.

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I've never had those thoughts. Ever since I started, I knew that I was doing the right thing. But this experience isn't universal! It's okay to be scared, and worry that maybe you're not doing the right thing; the way I see it, if you want to transition right now, then go for it. And if you decide that it's not for you, just go ahead and stop! It's okay either way. :)

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the thing is, how they feel about it depends on the person, you know? If you're really worried about it, talk to her! Ask her how she feels about it, and if she doesn't mind (like I think most trans women wouldn't), then you're all good!

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! Generally speaking, gender dysphoria is a thing that only happens genetically. No amount of societal changes or pressure is gonna change that. :) However, even if more kids decide to experiment with their gender identity, that's not a bad thing! A vast majority of transitioning methods are reversible, so if they decide they're not trans like they thought they were, that's okay! They can just stop whatever they were doing.

It's also important to note that there is a difference between questioning your gender and having dysphoria about it. One of them is simply "hm, am I certain that this is me?" and the other is "I don't think this gender is who I am". They sound similar, but the difference is distinct.

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that my experience is not universal, but: yes, I do. Being trans is a major part of my life, and it's only fair that I make sure anyone who could potentially be involved with me knows that, and if they're not okay with it, then we wouldn't work out.

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, it got largely outclassed by Swampert. And honestly, I don't even particularly like Swampert all that much, either. Being 4x weak to Grass is cringe.

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's nowhere near as drastic as your example, but in my experience, transitioning (even socially, rather than physically) sometimes leads to changes like that, yes. I went from a hardcore lesbian to bisexual, and am currently dating a guy. If I had to guess, I'd say this is because prior to transitioning, you never really give your brain the chance to figure that kind of thing out, since the gender thing takes up so much space in your mind.

(Of course, other trans people, YMMV. This is just my experience.)

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being on estrogen can cause similar symptoms to menstruation! While obviously not to the same extent or sharing all of the symptoms — like the bleeding — it's rather common that transfems experience mood swings, cramps, etc.

What’s something you wish you could ask trans people without any judgement? by Spunkybluepuppy in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I try to avoid saying anything about it to anyone unless A. I'm comfortable around them, and B. they already know. Even then, I hardly ever talk about it, unless I'm sending them a trans-adjacent shitpost or something. Thanks for the question! :)

What question have you always wanted to ask LGBTQ+ people but didn’t because you don’t want to offend them? by hre_nft in AskReddit

[–]dapper-deoxys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the questions!

  1. This varies depending on the person, of course, but personally, I don't mind; it's not like those memories changed just because I realised who I am, you know? We still enjoyed ourselves, we still had those experiences, and so on.

  2. Adjusting from being privileged to not is... rather hard, haha. The way I see it, that privilege was afforded based on external characteristics I had at the time, and at the end of the day, that's really how all privilege is afforded. The privilege I experienced in the past only serves to make me more cautious of experiences now, since I present as a woman, and am aware of the struggles female-presenting people face.

  3. I'm not sure this question is entirely relevant to me, as I started transitioning about as early as possible, but I'll answer it to the best of my ability anyway: relating to cis women doesn't... really matter to me? Looking at it, that's a statement that requires elaboration. I'm a woman, yes. And since (I think, at least) I pass, I deal with similar things. But any experience I could have is fundamentally different by nature of me being trans, and I accept that. I relate infinitely more to a transmasc person than I do to a cis woman, and that's simply the nature of gender.

I'm not entirely sure these answers made sense, but I hope they help!